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Tray Bynam

09/30/1988 - 12/13/2022

Obituary For Tray Bynam

Chief Petty Officer Tray Bynam, 34, of Phenix City, AL passed Tuesday, December 13, 2022 in Glenview, IL.

Funeral service will be held 11:00 a.m. EST, Thursday, December 29, 2022 at Providence Baptist Church, Seale, AL with Rev. Felix Worthen pastor, officiating. Burial to follow in Ft. Mitchell National Cemetery, Ft. Mitchell, AL. Visitation is Wednesday, December 28, 2022 from 12-5 p.m. EST.

Tray Bynam was born September 30, 1988 in Columbus, GA at the Columbus Medical Center to Ada and Charlie Bynam, Jr. He departed this realm into eternal life on Tuesday, December 13, 2022 at Northshore Glenbrook Hospital in Glenview, IL.

Tray gave his life to Christ at an early age and was a member of Phillips Temple C.M.E Church in Phenix City, AL up until he left to join the United States Navy. He was a proud 2007 graduate of Central High School, Phenix City, AL.

Tray's best friend growing up and as an adult is his loving big brother, Jeremy Michael Bynam. They laughed together, cried together and celebrated each others accomplishments with a big hug and a joke.

Tray loved God, his family, job and helping his sailors. The Navy was his extended family for 15 years. They continued to help nurture, cheer and pray for him. His growth, intelligence, compassion and professionalism impacted many people throughout his career as Navy Career Counselor.

Tray was nominated Sailor of the Quarter in the Navy Times Magazine. He worked in the Navy Human Resources Department. He was nominated twice as hometown hero by his navy sailors which afforded him recognition at a professional Chicago Bears football game and a professional White Sox baseball game. His newest and final achievement was making CPO (Chief Petty Officer) a dream he worked hard to receive and achieve which made him extremely proud.

Tray lived his life in a way that made God smile and say "Well done thou good and faithful servant" Matthew 25:21.

Tray was preceded in death by his beloved grandmother, Sallie Mae Joseph and grandfather, Willie Lee Joseph who helped groom him into the extraordinary person everyone knew and loved.

Those left to cherish memories of Tray include his mother and step dad, Ada (Glamis Baldwin); father, Charlie Bynam, Jr.; loving brother, Jeremy Michael Bynam; two sisters, Christal and Kenya; paternal grandparents, Dorothy and Charlie Bynam, Sr.; uncles, Bruce Joseph, Howard Wazeerud-Din (Rasheeda), Don Joseph, Larry Joseph (Phyllis), Douglas Joseph (Hope), Andrew Joseph (Lisa), Travolta Bynam and Maurice Bynam; two aunts, Veronica and Victoria; four nieces, Jordan, Ashlyn, Jada and Chloe; one nephew, Cam Bynam; special cousins, Tabitha, Victoria, Dedra and a host of aunts, uncles, cousins many friends and his entire loving Navy family.


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America the Beautiful was sent for Tray Bynam - December 28, 2022

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Cora collins sent Cherished Friend Bouquet for Tray Bynam - December 28, 2022

Tray, I love you and will miss you dearly me and Londyn. This one hurt bro! I promise to always hold you close to my heart! Love, Cora and Londyn

America the Beautiful was sent for Tray Bynam - December 27, 2022

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Charlene Ramilo sent Golden Days Basket for Tray Bynam - December 25, 2022

My condolences to the family. What an honor to have gone through Chief season with Tray. I will never forget him. He truly made an impact on my life. Much love and light, Charlene Ramilo

Heavenly & Harmony was sent for Tray Bynam - December 24, 2022

Hoi Yan Siu sent Faithful Friend Standing Spray for Tray Bynam - December 24, 2022

At a loss for words, we lost a great treasure; you are a very inspirational figure who helped me through many obstacles in different timelines back I was serving. Thank you for being who you are.

RON STACY sent Reflections of Glory Wreath for Tray Bynam - December 22, 2022

In Tray's loving memory from his USS George H. W. Bush family. Ron, Laura, AJ, Eddie, and Jon.

Roll Tide, Tray.

Erika McDougall planted 5 trees in memory of Tray Bynam . - December 30, 2022

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15 Trees were planted in memory of Tray Bynam - December 27, 2022

Tray,

Thank you for all the smiles and encouraging words you have always given us. You will not be forgotten and I pray that Heaven opened its doors wide to you as you sang your way into the pearly gates! We love you and will miss you! Love, Courtney Copeland & Brandon & Brita Oliver

To the family, my prayer is for strength and peace during this time of mourning. Weeping may endure for a night, but joy will come in the mourning. Let not your faith waiver for it is your faith and trust in the Lord that will get you through. From Jeffery Williams and famiky

To my dear friend Tray, I feel that I don't have the right words at this time. When we were younger it was always us at school in JROTC or at church almost daily! I kept thinking that we always had time to catch up and laugh like we used to. I can't imagine what you're family is going through, but I will continue to pray for peace at this time for those closest to you. -Morgan Bryant and Family

Look to God for strength and comfort. Joyce Lewis and family

To the family, sending you love and hugs. There are no words to express the kind of friend Tray was. I can't pick 1 moment to highlight how amazing or funny or inspiring he could be. I'm so proud of all he grew to be. I feel that I may have missed my chances to let him know. I hope there's a Tray for ever generation. It was a pleasure to call him friend and a honor to be called friend by him. May you rest in peace. K.Magruder

Tray you held a special place in my heart, though that place is broken right now as I try to compose this farewell message. I just want the world to know that I love you and I am very proud and blessed to have had you in my life for 34 years. I miss you dearly, Love your auntie Lisa Joseph

Tray,

This really hurts, I'm definitely going to miss our conversations and laughs. You were with me from day one on the Bush. We keep the light burning even went you left me there and went on to your next command. That's how I know we were true friends, you are definitely a brother to me and I will forever cherish you and them memories forever.

Love Cora

Rest I'm Peace brother. We had some good times cranking on the mess decks of the Ike lol. You always had a positive energy and always supported those around you whenever you could. The world lost a good soul way too soon. To your family, I send my condolences, and I pray they find peace in knowing you helped so many during your time walking this earth. You were loved by many, and will missed by just as many. Fair winds and following seas my friend. -Draper

Condolences to the Family - Denise Whigham

The Nance family would like to extend our sincere condolences to Charlie Bynam Jr and family. We will continue to keep the family lifted in prayer.πŸ™πŸΏ

I remember when I got a bad hair cut Tray was roasting my rainbow hairline and I was mad but I couldn't not laugh. He was like that all the time, always had you laughing. You couldn't be around him and be sad he had to make you chuckle at least a lil bit. My condolences to the Bynum family may he live through you and the rest of your family!!!

May the works you've done speak for you May the service you give speak for you May the life you've lived speak for you When your friends don't understand May the life you lived speaks for you.

Take your Rest cousin Janice Spencer and son Biondi

NCC BYNAM, You were a great mentor , A great friend , A great member to the Bush Admin Team !! You lit up the room everytime you entered the disbursing office! You made every one laugh & you helped a lot of people .... I'm still at shocked .... But You'll always be in our hearts & you'll be missed by SOOO many ! <3 V/R PS1(SW/AW/IW)Partee' Nia

It is a blessing knowing you as a friend and also as an alternative family serving in CVN-77. Lots of quality conversations that inspirational were light the way and help get through obstacles easier, always fighting for your people, which I appreciate a lot. My condolences to you and your family.

Brother it was a pleasure to service with you on CVN-77. You were like a brother to me, and you will be be greatly missed. I will always remember the times we use to talk on deployment after work about life and encouraging each other. Its hard to know that you will not be here physically but I have no doubt that you are in a better place. We have the watch Chief. PS1(AW/SW/IW) Ernest Pryor

My sincere condolences to the family. May God continue to strengthen you during this difficult time. Rest in paradise ❀️❀️. Lisa Colson and Family.

To my best friend, words can't describe the bond that you and I had.. we could go weeks without talking and it never changed, our conversations always would be filled with love and laughter, you would tell me to "Stop being so sensitive Jeremy" when I would cry at the drop of a dime from either your or my achievements, or just giving each other advice.. I love you and will always be my BROTHERS KEEPER, Tray please watch over us and I pray that you come to me and moms dream soon to ease our pain...just remember, I will never let the world forget about you.. Until we meet again, Your Brother, Jeremyβ€οΈπŸ™πŸΎ

Could read my mood like a book, there were days when I would allow all of the "noise" to get the better of me.....and here comes Bynam, loud, country, and caring to bring me back. Felt like family from when we first met, that's rare to come by.

My condolences to the family. I pray for comfort for you during this time. Please know that Tray was loved! He's our family; our brother.

We miss you Tray! Rest easy and we'll see you on the other side! Your sister, Brittany

Chief, I remember the day we met at NSGL on your 1st day and you walked up to building 1 and I said "is that a pinky ring" you said yes it is GM2 I said "ouuu Ima like you NC1"Since that moment nobody has went hard for me like you! Trained me, dedicated time, every-time I got something right you celebrated me! I never met anybody who can out work you! Hustle was so unmatched! I love and I miss you king!

Met in 2015 and you were always consistent and upbeat. You touched a lot of people in a positive way and I am proud to call you my brother in the mess. You will be missed. Cory Wallace, CVN 77

Cory Wallace

Tray Bynam was my protege, Sailor, Shipmate and brother. I have never lost someone so close to me like this in a long time and know that you have definitely made an impact during your short stay here on earth.

Infinite love, blessings, strength and grace to the family, friends and loved ones. Love you little brother/Sea Son and we are going to miss you Tray! πŸ•ŠοΈπŸ•ŠοΈπŸ•ŠοΈπŸ•ŠοΈ All my best- CMDCM Ty Jiles

Our friend, our brother, we miss you dearly but we know you would say "don't worry about me, I'll be good." You left us too soon but God always has a plan. We will continue to pray for you and your family. We love and will continue to remember you.

-Aj and BUSH CCC TEAM "ALL STAR TEAM"

Ada, I was so sorry to hear about the passing of Tray. My sincere condolences to you and your family. I pray God strengthen each of you during this difficult time. God has gained another precious angel. R.I.H. Tray. Annie Nance

It is my sincere prayer that God grants all of Tray's family, friends, and fellow service members peace, strength and comfort. πŸ™πŸΌ Amen. -Taileur

Tray, Wow! Your personality and spirit was so infectious and you used to make everything funny. The joy that you brought to the world and everybody you have come in contact with is unmatched. In your words, you were a rarity! Rest in peace brother. -Taileur

You touched the lives of so many including myself. I will truly miss you! My deepest sympathies to the Bynam family.

Sending much love & condolences to your family. ~Comiea R

So sorry to hear this sad news my condolences to the family may God bless and keep you all Sandra Pitts

Tray will be missed by so many because he was such a wonderful & caring person. I feel so very fortunate to have worked alongside him at NSGL. Tray was a constant guiding light and made everyone around him always want to be better. Heartfelt condolences to the family! Rest in peace, my friend. Patty Menge

Tray Bynum was a humble and charitable man. I had the privilege to work with Tray during his Command Career Counseling days on CVN-77, particularly through his work in taking care of Sailors. I extend my deepest condolences to his family, as well as his friends. He will be solely missed and will always be a "LEGEND" for his contributions to the Navy and his family. πŸ™πŸΎβ€οΈ. Very respectfully, CDR Omar Hair

Cousin it breaks my heart to see your obituary especially after my dad done passed not too long before you. I never wanted to come back on this page and write but I just want to say WE LOVE YOU and you're accomplished so much in such little time. Continue to watch over all of us and I pray that you and my dad see each other! β™₯️

Starr Joseph

Words cannot express the gratitude I have for you. Your knowledge, tact, and leadership continues to permeate throughout the staff at Naval Station Great Lakes. You have left us far too soon, but I am reminded of your legacy and the memories you left us with, and for them, I honor your life and continue moving forward. Rest your burdens, and may fair winds guide you to your new home, we have the watch Chief.

-HM2(FMF) Hopkins, Eric E.

Tray was an extraordinary person! He was an amazing friend, mentor and leader! He will truely be missed! RIP Bro! Cari lytle

Sending my condolences to the friends and family! Tray was always a joy to be around. He will be sorely missed!

We love you and will miss you Tray! May peace, love, and comfort be with his family at this heartbreaking time. CENTRAL CLASS OF 2007 LOVES YOU!

I am so blessed to have known you. Lots of memories shared and heartfelt conversations. To the grieving family, we care for you deeply and you are in our prayers. Love always, Angela Hill

A true brother and friend who left this world far too soon. His light will be missed by so many who cherished him. May he be blessed in his journey to another place and we be allowed to take solemn in knowing that we will see, hug and laugh with him once again one day. With so much love, Paulina Shelley

Condolences sent to the Bynam family, may you be surrounded in God's comfort and strength during this difficult time. Tray was really a rare light in this world, who had influenced and motivated many sailors, including myself, onboard CVN77 during his time as a CCC. I am truly honored to have met and served with such a kind soul. May he rest in heavenly peace, sending my prayers to his family and friends, he truly was loved by many, it hurts to see him go but I know his spirit will continue to live on πŸ•ŠοΈ

-PO2 Finley

With deepest sympathy and prayers to the Bynam family. Tray was a wonderful friend and shipmate. He is sorely missed already. Thanks for the time we shared working together - Terrence Jones, CDR, USN (CVN 77 Shipmate (Oct 17 - Oct 19))

A true bright light that the world needed. Such a beautiful kindred spirit that I am forever thankful for. You have left a special place in everyone's heart. And that laugh...oh how I'm really going to miss that! I love you Bynam. Sending my condolences & heavily praying for the Joseph/Bynam family. ~Your sister Hawkins

To the Bynam and Joseph Family. We send heart felt condolences to our family. May God give you strength during this very sad time. May Trey rest in the perfect peace. Cousin Vanessa English and Family Georgia

My Brother Tray! God has gained a true Angel, I'm blessed for the time we shared. I'm forever grateful for the good and bad days as we made the best of those timeless laughs. My condolences to the Bynam and Joseph family. -Chris/Big Law-

To my joking partner, man you're dearly missed already. Condolences to your family.

*REED*

Our deepest condolences to the Bynum family. My God grant you comfort in your time of need.

Karl and Yvette

A Good Person is Gone Way to Soon continue watching over us ...my prayers are with the Family...you will be missed by a lot....

Class of "2007" Fly High Tray

To the Bynam family our deepest condolences may God always protect our nephew,grandson,and wonderful man Tray Bynam for all eternity. From one Bynam family to another.

My deepest condolences to the family. May God comfort and keep you as only He can.

Our sincerest condolences to his family. Tray was a beautiful soul who lit up the room and could always make anyone smile. He is sorely missed.

My deepest condolences to the family.Such a beautiful soul gone to soonπŸ™πŸΏ

may God's hands of comfort be with the family. words cannot express my deepest sympathy. May God continue to be with you all.

Condolences to the Family - Natasha Harris

A true friend indeed that will never be forgotten ❀️ My sincere condolences to the Bynam's Family ❀️

Our staff will continue to keep your family in our prayers. We thank you for allowing us to serve your family.

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