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Obituary For Willie Alexander May, Jr.
Willie Alexander May, Jr., a larger-than-life figure, beloved husband and father, was born on November 23, 1983, to Willie A. May Sr. and Wanda T. May of Chesterfield, VA. He passed away on January 7, 2025, at the age of 41. Willie lived life to the fullest, leaving behind a legacy of love, laughter, and cherished memories. He was preceded in death by his grandparents Henry and Edith May and his great-grandmother Dorothy V. Turner and Julia B. Hampton.
Willie is survived by his loving parents, Willie A. May Sr. and Wanda T. May; his devoted wife, Natascha R. May; his beloved son, Cameron A. May; and his cherished brother, Warren A. May. He is also survived by his grandparents, Landon C. Turner, Jr. and Nancy Turner; devoted cousins, Vicheal Greene and Darryl Lee; and his best friend, Luther West. In addition, he leaves behind a host of devoted aunts, great-aunts, uncles, great-uncles, cousins, and friends.
Willie's education began overseas in Germany, where he attended WΓΌrzburg American High School and played football and basketball for the Central European League in 1998. He later attended Lloyd C. Bird High School in Chesterfield County in 1999 and graduated in 2002. An exceptional athlete, Willie participated in All-State, All-Star, and All-Metro football games as a standout player for Lloyd C. Bird High School. His remarkable achievements led to his induction into the Lloyd C. Bird Hall of Fame in 2019.
After graduating high school, Willie attended Lackawanna College in Scranton, PA, where he continued playing football. In 2004, he transferred to Virginia State University and pursued his football career there as well. Willie earned his Bachelor of Science degree in May 2007 and began a career in juvenile services, driven by a deep passion for working with at-risk youth. His career started at James River Detention Home, where he was a shift supervisor, providing 17 years of dedicated public service. Willie also worked part-time at Chesterfield Adolescent Resource Pathways during his career.
To know Willie was truly a blessing. Among his many passions, fatherhood stood above all. He was a devoted father to Cameron and took immense pride in his son's interests, hobbies, and academic and athletic achievements. Willie also loved football beyond the field, and his favorite team was the Washington Commanders. A lover of music and dancing, he was a talented professional DJ, known as "DJ Ill Will," who brought joy to family and friend celebrations around the metro-Richmond area.
In the past few days, family and friends have shared countless stories of Willie's infectious laugh and vibrant spirit. His laugh was contagious, lighting up every room it filled.
Willie knew how deeply his family loved him, and we will miss him more than words can express.
Remains rest at Scott's Funeral Home, 115 E. Brookland Park Blvd., where viewing will be held Sunday, January 19 from 11 a.m. until 5 p.m. Funeral services will be held 11 a.m. Monday, January 20 at Scott's Chapel, 116 E. Brookland Park Blvd. Rev. Wesley Dickerson, officiating.
Entombment will be at Dale Memorial Park Mausoleum.
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Peace & Serenity Dishgarden was sent for Willie Alexander May, Jr. - January 15, 2025
John W. Jones sent The Peace Lily for Willie Alexander May, Jr. - January 14, 2025
Sending our condolences and prayers to the May family from John & Marinda Jones and family..
Fredy Barahona planted 5 trees in memory of Willie Alexander May, Jr. . - January 19, 2025
Mangaline lewis planted 5 trees in memory of Willie Alexander May, Jr. . - January 14, 2025
My sincerest condolences to the May family. Willie always possessed a great aura and was one of those people you would genuinely be happy to see anytime. A natural vibe, and a great person. Always fun to converse with. One of my favorite people to find at a social event, and just chop it up with him about shows and movies and (Washington) Football. I Always appreciated how friendly and fun he was.. his presence will be missed and never forgotten. -Chris Lippa
I was deeply saddened to hear about the passing of Willie May. It was indeed a pleasure to coach him at Virginia State University. May you find comfort in the cherished moments you shared and may his memory bring you peace. Know that god is with everyday.
Coach Andrew Faison and Family
Rest well to Willie May Jr. A great friend and coworker. When in his presence there was peace laughter and smiles . It's a pleasure to have shared plenty of them. To the May family, my condolences.
May God bless and comfort the family during this difficult time. May I pray you have a Peaceful Journey.
Hopkins
His smile and willingness to help others was always present. Peace be with you. Pat Carrington
Prayers to the familyππ½ππ½ππ½ Lil Willie you got your wings you will be truly miss I remember when uncle Willie or aunt Wanda will come get me to braid your hair and I loved our conversations we use to have and us just spending some time together β€οΈ you will never be forgotten cousin
I will truly miss you and you will never be forgotten. God has a beautiful angel up there with him. May you rest up now.from your cousin lynn, love you.ποΈππΎ
Willie and Wanda are like Brother and Sister to me. We go way back to Gissen, Germany when I first met them and my nephew Willie Jr. he was a little fella running around and getting into all kinds of stuff, running the VCR and watching everything he was not supposed to be watching π. I send my condolences and prayers. I love you guys ππΎ
Praying for the family during this difficult time π
I'm going to miss that big smile of yours. Such a wonderful kind hearted person.
Rest Well, Willie!! ππΎ Sending prayers of peace and the comfort of God to your family and loved ones through the difficult days! (Matthew 5:4/John 11:25-26) -Traci Miller #4everSkyhawkTrojanFam
When I see Alex .I always called him Alex He had such a beautiful smile and he always gave me a hug .,a kiss and he would say hi Aunt Delores . Alex was so kind and he love his family so very much. I will miss your kind gentle way you have. God Bless , and Rest in Peace my Nephew . Missing you . Your Aunt Delores
Lord Heavenly Father, during this most difficult time...I pray that you will keep my mentor, Willie May Sr., his wife and their entire family in your loving embrace. Showing them that it is still GOD who gives us the strength, mercy and grace to continue to praise his name in the midst of tragedy, heartache and pain. Lord God, we thank you for giving us the memories and experiences to celebrate this beautiful son and soul that you have blessed us all to know. I will always remember Willie Jr. as a gentle giant, who was always ready with a warm smile and a big hearty laugh for anyone that needed one. He will be sorely missed by all that knew him. With all our love and prayers, Eric Williams and Family
My love and prayers go out to the May Family. May Jehovah God be with you and comfort you.
Dale "Hajji" Nelson
It's never easy to lose a love one. Our condolences to our family friend. My husband (Kevin) and Willie Sr coached our boys football teams. They looked like the bad news bears , but they eventually placed in the end. I didn't get to see Willie Jr grow into a young man, but I knew his parents and I know he would become a respected young man . Sorry , to hear of his passing, but happy to celebrate his life with just a memory.
My condolences to the May family. I pray you experience God's love during this difficult time. I am grateful to have worked part-time with Mr. May Jr. and will remember the stories, his love of family, sports, and laughter. Joeleathia Wilson
Willie was a great guy; he always had a positive and cheerful attitude. He made a positive and profound effect on the children he was working with, and he will always be remembered. My prayers are with the family, God Bless! Mike Martin
Willie was a great individual; he always had a cheerful and positive attitude. I enjoyed working with him; he really cared about helping the kids he worked with, and he will be remembered. I will be praying for the family.
Father God, I pray that you give this family strength during their time of bereavement. My heart goes out to the May family during this difficult time. May Jr. was a great man. There aren't enough words that can fully express how much he meant to me and my family. Rest peacefully, until we meet again. Love, The Lamberts
Love you my Brother, until we meet again. ππ½ππ½ππ½ππ½
To the family, I will always remember working with Willie and having long conversation and many laughs,Rest Well. Gayzelle Thomas
To Landon and Eleanor Turner, we were so saddened to hear of your grandson and nephew's Homegoing but remember, God does not make mistakes, and he wanted Alex Home with him. To his mother and other family members, you too are in our prayers. Your Carver High Class of 1960
Lord, please keep the May Family in your grace and strength uplift them with prayers. Through you we know all things are possible, keep Willie Jr. memory and beautiful spirit in our hearts and minds. Rest in Heavenly Peace! Until we meet again my brother!! Sherry and Solomon Haywood
Rest easy fellow Skyhawk
Our condolences and prayers for the May family. Alex is and will always be my little brother/nephew. So many memories of us together in Germany. You dominating basketball court. To you always making us laugh. It was you who got me back in touch with your family and for that I am grateful. From the Palmers, may you Rest in Paradise. ALL LOVE
Willie, Wanda, Warren, and Cameron we are so sorry for your loss. May God give you the strength and peace that is so needed at this difficult time. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. With our deepest sympathy and love, Wanda, Tionna, Charles Jr. and Callie The Gills
To the family of that late Willie "Alex" May Jr., I pray for your strength, comfort, and peace during this most difficult time. We thank God for the good times of laughter and love that we had to share with Willie. The last words he said to me will forever be etched in my mind. This is a hard pill to swallow, but I know that God is in control and makes no mistakes, for lyrics say, "and we'll understand it better by and by." Rest peacefully in heaven, my friend!
My cousins, I offer heartfelt empathy and condolences to you during this very difficult season of grief. Words cannot adequately express these sentiments. The Della Tuppence Ellis branch of your family stands with you in faith as we journey through this, yet another, season of sorrow! With love, Ernest Ellis
Lord give the family the strength to get through this difficult time!! May your hand be with them to keep them strong!! We know you are still God!! May Willie Jr rest in heavenly peaceβ€οΈ From A.T. Taylor and Family
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