Dexter Edward Williams

To LaVera williams and family.: i only learned late this year of Dexter's passing, and was deeply saddened. I first met Dexter when I moved to Richmond in 1995, and was in need of insurance for my new home. While my relationship with him was as a client, I came away from every conversation or meeting I had with him as one with a friend who cared about me and my family. Dexter and I shared many conversations about our common interest in golf, and in recent years about Nigel's success on the football field. I know he looked forward to Nigel's years in college. May Dexter"s memory be a blessing to you all.......Alan Koralek

To the Dexter family, I have known Dexter for 26 years as my agent and very close friend. It was like we were blood brothers. We played a lot of golf together and talked about the big college football games over the years. He was very caring about my family health. I was so sad and still am this week and forever when I called to his office to get another insurance policy. Hearing the sad news took some of my life away. I miss him so much! He was such a great person, friend, and brother. These words cannot express my love for him. RIP my brother ~ Leon

We are Mike and Marion Bennett. We just learned of Dexter's passing. We are SO SO sorry for this loss. He was so much more than an insurance agent. He was truly family. He became our agent in 1999 and became a lot more over the years. We were with him while marrying the love of his life an the birth of your three beautiful children. We heard so many "N"kid stories! (He told us about Nia getting "lost" on the Disney cruse) The look on his face when he talked about all of you was priceless. His office was close so when he needed something signed, I would go there instead oh waiting for it in tge mail. Our business would end up talkibg about family. He was very serious about his business. I loved going to his office and playing with his desk tots I could tslk about him for hours. This world has truly lost a gem. Your family are in our prayers.

When I look into the sky; I think of you but I can not say good-bye I keep searching to find a clue..but I see nothing.....so where are you?? Are you there above the sky? Too far away to hear my cry It hurts now that you've gone away But God was ready for u, I know, I just wish I had another day I cannot explain the pain I feel the heartache....the emptiness is oh so real you cannot understand my grief I still feel lost in disbelief. my voice has faded even to pray but I still get up each and every day I never imagined it would end this way... A love as beautiful as the ocean blue I wish I had not been left without you And although I am filled with so many tears I am thankful that God gave us 34 years I love you forever... Lovey

LaVera, Nia, Nigel and Noah, our love and hearts have been with you. We send our sincerest condolences. When I heard about Dexter's tragic passing, I immediately felt crushed knowing the world, and especially your family, lost a remarkable man. I will always remember Dexter on the basketball and football sidelines cheering with amazing enthusiasm. His passion and immense love for his kids could be seen on huge display through all the cheers and encouragement and after game talks. It was beautiful to witness, year after year, from lower school to high school. We are so honored to have known him and will always hold each of you close. With so much love, the Maynard family

Today is June 5 and just notified of the lost of this impressive young black man!Met Dexter in 1987 as he was beginning his professional adventure before marrying Lavera. I loved his attitude and tenacity towards life, love, and success. Spent many days ( concerts in park, lunch, dinners with Dexter and Lavera before he children. Great guy and he will truly be missed. Lavera, its James of James and RaJean. We are so deeply sad for your and our loss. As you know, Dexter and I had our moments but we both grew through our conversations over the years. Dexter was my guy, the relationship was more than insurance, it was fatherhood, being black male in America, husband and wives,family, loss, insurance, lack of insurance(lol), so many other subjects we discussed. There will never ever be another Dexter Williams but he will live through all the people who's lives he touched. Please accept my sincere condolences for your loss and feel free to contact me should you need us. James Taylor Jr.

Sending my condolences to the William's family from cousin Eric Easley. Dexter was a loving caring man that took pride in his family. Dexter and Lavera are examples of how love and friendship should look like. Dexter was a strong man physically and mentally that cared about others and wanted to see them succeed in life. Two weeks prior to his passing I cut his hair and we talked about how he was excited to see his eldest son going to college to play football, a sport that he loved. As we watched clips from a game and focused on plays that Nigel would be playing giving fatherly advice was inspiring. Dexter you will truly be missed my friend and brother. Salute...

Sending thoughts and prayers to the Williams family from the Easley's. Dexter was a very kind person that loved his wife and family. Dexter showed how family values, dedication and hard work should be. Dexter cared about people and always wanted to help others physically and mentally. Dexter and Lavera are examples of how love and friendship should look like and I am deeply saddened. I cut his hair two week prior to his passing and all he talked about was his family as he and Nigel watched clips of college football, and how Nigel should attack the field. Dexter was a strong man who I considered family and will be truly missed. My brother. Salute... Eric Easley.

They say the pain gets easier as the days go by They say it doesn't matter when I'm hurting to just cry They say they want to help me Not sure that they should try they don't hear me screaming why did you have to die I fight back the tears when you are with me in the day At night is when i I cry for you knowing you've gone away They say our love was as beautiful as the sea; how can they understand how much you meant to me. You were my hero, my Knight in Shining Armor You were my greatest love song My Rock Star and my Charmer. You were, you are, and you will always be...... the greatest love God ever gave to me. I know you are still here! Lovey

Dear LaVera, Nia, Nigel and Noah,

"I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race," I have kept the faith. Now there is in store for me the crown of righteous, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to me, but also to all who have longed for his appearing. (2 Timothy 4:7-9). Karen and I were very saddened and shocked to learn of Dexter's passing. Dexter was the epitome of a great husband, father, and friend. I met Dexter about 35 years ago at the University of Virginia. My old roommate, Franklin Jackson, Esquire and Dexter were first cousins. Dexter would come and visit a couple of times year. He was only 14 at the time, but a wise 14. I could tell then that he had a keen intellect. We would discuss, debate, and process the issues of the day over refreshments. Back then it was Apartheid, Aids, Ronald Regan, Pat Ewing, Ralph Sampson, George Clinton and Doug E Fresh. Frank decided to get married during his 3rd year at UVA to a beautiful pre-med student from Danville. The Fellas decided that there had to be a bachelor party, in the mist of the party there was Dexter holding court with the Elders, Jefferson Scholars and Echols Scholars. After graduation from UVA I settled in Richmond and began a career in Virginia Politics. I would run into Dexter a couple of times a year, at a restaurant or some social event. Dexter always wanted to know what candidate I was helping or supporting. After a little debate and processing I could always count on Dexter's support. LaVera and Dexter were very instrumental with an event Karen and I had at our home for one of the recent Virginia Governors. "We are confident, I say, and willing rather to be absent from the body, and to be present with the Lord" (2 Corinthians 5:8) Rest well My Brother! Love, Karen and Rich Williams

To the Beautiful Williams Family, Every time I talk about you all, it always begins with what a loving, caring beautiful family you are. What comes to mind about Dexter was his snazzy style and broad smile. We met so many years ago and never failed we continued to connect our families, sometimes by accident but many times planned. Randy wasn't always able to be with us because of work, but that never bothered Dexter he always made us feel so welcome and truly interested in all aspects of our lives. I read your note LaVera and the love between the two of you was so genuine and on full display to others, the joking around with each other was entertaining. Dexter joked and enjoyed the kids so much, but you could tell he held them accountable. our hearts and prayers got out to all of you. I pray for the children that they continue their lives the way he envisioned, he was a rightfully proud Father and will truly be with you always, a guardian angel. The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. God Bless, Randy, Trynna & Taylor Johnson

I was Dexter's bookkeeper for the last 15 years. I have heard many stories of Nia, Noah and Nigel. He was so very proud of all of his childre. I have also heard many things about his love, LaVera. He would always show up at my door with a smile and the phone ringing off the hook. I will miss his wit. He was such a caring soul always trying to help others. My thoughts and prayers are with all of Dexter's family. Marbury Frostick

"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit" (Psalm 34:18 NIV). LaVera, Nia, Nigel, Noah, Mr. Williams, and family; we can only imagine the heartbreak you are enduring, as we know our own pain pales in comparison yours. Dexter was our friend, our agent and at many times in the past 30 years, a personal confidant. I (John) remember the day Dex, who was also my neighbor at the time, called and said, "JR, are you home? I need to stop by. You need to meet someone. She's "THE ONE!" There has never been any doubt in his mind that you are THE ONE, and his love for you and your family has been validated consistently ever since. From Nia's birth, and his nervousness about being a first-time dad, to the pride in his voice when Nigel and Noah were born. The number of life-altering events we have shared with your family leaves us connected forever. God has a special way of calling on His most special children! He called Dexter because He was ready for Dex to come home; though none of us are ready to let him go. We may never understand, but we must trust in His work and in His word! We love you all and will always be here for you! ~ John, Melanie, Maya, Isaac & Meredith Rivers

My sincere condolences goes out to Dexter's family. I was a client of his for at least 20 odd years. He was a very professional person and I enjoyed our conversations. Even tho we were our relationship was professional I felt it was also personal as well. We shared a lot of family stories throughout the years and I will cherish his friendship and our conversations. My prayers reach out to you. Richard Stewart, III

It's taking me a long time to share my thoughts and feelings about Dexter. In a way I felt the longer I waited, the less true this will be. I've known Dexter since our high school days and he was one person who made a profound impact in my life. I am truly going to miss him. I looked forward to the family updates and hearing that laugh in his face. To Lavera and family, my thoughts and prayers are with you. My condolences. Love, Cheryl Hunter-Rowland

Dear LaVera, Nia, Nigel and Noah, My heartfelt condolences on the passing of your husband and father. The world has truly lost a great man. We met through Jack and Jill. I remember that he was one of the dads who seemed to be having as much fun as the kids at our events. I also remember how much he loved to mentor and share his financial expertise with them. Although he left us far too soon, you should find comfort in knowing that he left a lasting impact on so many lives. He's resting at peace now with his Savior. May God give you strength and peace. Love, Angela Roberts

Dexter, I met you and your wife over 15 years ago. You were the epitome of a great dad and an awesome husband. Still remember all the memories my family and yours had together every holiday, from the Homestead on MLK days to some of the nicest parties/restaurants. God doesn't make mistakes. He was ready for you to come home. I know you will continue to watch over over V (Vera) and the Kids, helping her to gain strength in these difficult times.

May the Lord have mercy on your soul. Martine

Dear Williams Family, My heart is heavy with the news of your beloved husband and father's passing. You all are being lifted up in prayer, and I hope that beautiful memories of special times are a comfort. Kimberley Zandler

To my knowledge Dexter is my mother's oldest friend. As an adult myself now, all my childhood memories of Dexter are short bursts of laughter, & him ALWAYS smiling. I was a little older than his kids & perhaps didn't always show my true excitement at uncle Dexter & aunt lavera's visits, growing up, but the last time I saw him, I was an adult, 25 years old. I had moved to a new city by myself for the first time, and was honestly kind of floundering. Dexter pulled me aside at a family function & just let me know he saw & loved me, that he'd always known me to be full of ideas & determination. He told me he wasn't worried about me, and that when I had settled on the one idea that pushed me forward, I should "come talk to uncle Dexter about it." Ive never forgotten that. In my memory he will be eternally smiling, supportive & simply a good man. One who would do anything for his loved ones, with charm. Sending all my love to the family during this time.

Love is eternal, Maiya M Williams

May he be a blessed memory. Nationwide colleague. Michele Lombard

Been sitting for the last few days trying to wrap my mind around this enormous lost. Words cannot express how I am feeling. My deepest, heartfelt condolences go out to you Lavera and your children as well as all those who lives he has touched. Just remembering him from family reunions he made sure to make a beeline straight to me it seems just so he could call me by my nickname"lilbit", I would respond by saying something funny and that was all he needed we would go back and forth for what seemed like 10 minutes,all with laughter and love. I think he didn't see anyone else there but me. Which made his weekend and mine as well. But the conversations and advice that he had you knew was the truth. I will miss him dearly. So remember The passing of a Loved one will leave a void that no one can possibly fill. But remember Love will always leave many memories that No One Can Ever Steal. My continued prayers to you dLove Cousin Marion(Lilbit)

LaVera and Family, I send my deepest sympathies to each of you. To loose such a wonderful man at such an early age is a difficult reality to face. So many plans and events in life that will now hold a space where Dexter should be standing. Although you can't see him he will be there watching over you as the proud loving father and husband that you were so blessed to have. I know he and Ben are up in heaven together,exchanging stories and giving each other advice on how to send signs on the days that are the most challenging. LaVera, take comfort in knowing, we are blessed with what some never have, whether they are married or not. Peace, love and continued blessings in abundance is my prayer for you and your children. Much love, Mary Lambert

Dear LaVera and family, my deepest condolences go out to you. It knocked me to my seat when I heard of his passing from Phil. I remember when you began your relationship together and how happy you both were and how much you were made for each other. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family. With love, Alex Mitchell and family.

Dear Lavera,Nia,Nigel and Noah my heart is broken that you have lost your husband, father and friend. I will pray that God will look over you to help you understand this unthinkable loss. I have known Dexter since he was 5 years old. Me and my sister used to baby sit him and watched him grow through all of the stages of his life. He called me his big sister and as we all grew up, went to college, got married and started adult life we always tried to stay in touch. He made it a point to visit me in Massachusetts with Lavera and baby Nia so that I could meet his wife and new family. About 5 years ago I ran into Dexter and the whole family in New York City, we spent a few hours shopping, eating and catching up, I will always remember that day. We would check in with each other 4 to 5 times a year to see how things were going, what the kids were up to and to reminisce about old times and funny stories. I called Dexter on April 21st but didn't get him and left a message, the next message I received was that he was gone. Dexter and his family were family to me. I spent so much of my childhood with his mother and father, aunts, uncles and cousins. I loved Dexter and loved the amazing person that he had become. I will miss our calls and him saying my name in an exaggerated southern drawl. Reading all of these tributes speaks volumes to who he was and how he lived! I will miss you but I will never forget you! Love, Valerie Bennett

To the family, my heartfelt sympathies go out to you, I've known Dexter for 19 years and when I tell you, he was a true gift from GOD, a true brother and friend, to his loved ones remember the gift of life is not ours but a blessing to have been in his presence, keep the faith, lean on one another and find comfort in knowing he is resting in peace, your brother in Christ Kevin Holmes

Dexter has been a friend of 20 plus years who I considered a brother. His committment to his family, deep faith and excellence in his profession embody Isaiah's words, "...the noble man makes noble plans, and by noble deeds he stands." Dexter will be deeply missed, yet his pursuits, wisdom and approach to his goals in life will live on. My thoughts, prayers and support go out to LaVera, Nia, Nigel, Noah and the entire family. Until we meet again brotha. Rev. Eugene Downing

Dexter gave me a job when I relocated from Northern Virginia in 2001. I worked for Dexter for 10 years. He was not only my employer but was a friend who always asked about my family. He will be missed. Continued prayers for the family. Barbara Holmes

Dear Williams family, Our hearts are heavy with your incomparable loss. Dexter was a man of such fine principles, and every time I saw him with you or at family events, I was struck with his evident devotion to you. He left this world too soon, but his legacy will live on in his compassionate, gifted children. I hope you will find strength and solace in the love of family, friends, and your church community. I will always remember Dexter working on his fitness, then tennis, then relaxing with Collegiate friends during the senior year trip to Jamaica - great thanks we all had that time with you. With love and sympathy, Eleanor and Robert Angle, as well as Ellie and Virginia.

To my dearest Brother Dex-

It is a blessing to know you. My brother-in-law who is as much a brother as any other. The joy and happiness you bring my sister can only be heaven sent. Your righteous spirit, integrity, commitment to excellence, and love you posses is alive in your children. You will be loved forever. Transition in peace.

Thomi

I am sorry for your loss Lavera, Noah,Nia, and Nigel. You all have my deepest sympathy. Please know you are in my prayers. When I was blessed to be around him, he did make you laugh. To be absent from the body is to be present with the lord.... Matthew 5:4 Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted. I hope that gives you a little comfort in your time of sorrow. I've you cousin. And I am praying for you all strength Love your cousin Terrie L. Hairston

I am saddened by the loss of Dexter. He was a good person, a God fearing man, a loving husband and a wonderful father. I love you LaVera, Nia, Nigel and Noah. I am praying for comfort for you during this sad time today and always.Cousin. Patricia Giles

Dear LaVera, Nia, Nigel, Noah, and Family,

Thinking of you all as you celebrate Dexter's life, we also mourn with you. He was an amazing husband, father, son, son in law, brother in law, friend and entrepreneur. Which makes him an amazing person. As we reflect on the 30 plus years of friendship that we were so blessed to have shared in with Dexter and LaVera from birthdays to baptisms and get-togethers, just because; we will let the tears flow, but when we remember how good the good times were our smiles and laughter will begin to show. We also had the opportunity to witness his interaction with his parents and LaVera's parents and with his children. A very close-knit family. He was uniquely created by God (1 Peter 4:10-11) he was able to show love to them all in a very special way, tailored to fit. Which was represented in his style of dress tailored to fit, uniquely for him. He and laVera both. It so hard to mentioned Dexter without LaVera in the same breath. "DNL". And-for us- we were his friends, but he treated us like family. He was the same if we were out at a restaurant for dinner or at their home for dinner restaurant style. It did not matter. Dexter was going to be Dexter. On a personal and professional level. As it has been said," He loved to help people make their lives better"." It's the common theme of DNL". What a testament to a life well-lived. Having the opportunity to do what you love and to be successful at doing it and for that legacy to live on through "Lovey"( as he affectionately refer to laVera as) Nia, Nigel, and Noah! Our family will deeply miss you, especially our after Sunday service church chats!

Rest In Peace, Dex!

Sorrowfully Submitted,

The Coleman Family

Our deepest condolences, prayers and love to your family. We pray that Father God will lead, guide, touch and bring you comfort as only He can. We will miss Dexter's smile, laughter, and words of wisdom. We feel blessed that our paths crossed and we have been enriched by knowing him. Love, Mironda Starke (AJ) and Brandon Watson

Cousin, My deepest condolences can't be written. I pray though, that you are comforted in the decades of love you and Dex shared, the love of your children and the love sent to you by your friends and family. I remember meeting Dex one summer while I was visiting, you two had just started dating all those years ago and you took me to meet him on campus. Decades later you two built a life together that was filled with travel, tournaments and touching moments you will never forget. I also pray for the kids and that their hearts are mended by the unconditional love they shared with their father. Your strength is found in the love, cherish it and lean on it. May God rest Dexter's soul. Love & Light, Tia, Eli, Christopher and Zo.

Insurance a necessary evil, but Dexter always made it easy to understand and I always look forward to dealing with him. Thoughts and prayers from the Sweets to the Williams family. Chris and Nanette Sweet

Dear Williams Family, I was so very sorry to read of Dexter's death in yesterday's newspaper. He was too young! I met Dexter 27 or 28 years ago at Hathaway Tower. I had just started working there and he was encouraging the Homeowner Association to join his new agency. Ultimately, they did, and it was a very productive relationship for both parties. He always represented Hathaway and put together packages that were beneficial to the Association and the residents. He recommended changes that reduced our premiums and exposures. I learned so much about insurance from him that I still use today. My deepest sympathy is with all of you. I will always remember his lovely smile and kindness. Sincerely, Mary O'Connell

My sincere condolences go out to the family, stay strong in your faith.-Curtis Jefferson and family

Our thoughts and prayers are with LaVera, Nia, Nigel, Noah and all who share in the devastating loss of their dear Dexter. May the Lord continue to comfort you and give you peace. Brooke and James Berry

I am feeling so overwhelmed due to the sudden passing of Dexter. Every since I have known LaVera, Dexter has been the love of her life. They shared a love that we all wish we could experience. My heart aches for LaVera and the family. LaVera, Nia, Nigel and Noah were Dexter's heartbeats. I can only imagine how deeply they are mourning the loss of a husband and father. Dexter positively touched so many lives as evidenced by all the kind memories that have been shared by so many. The struggle, grief and pain you are feeling today will be your strength tomorrow and the days ahead. God blessed you with wonderful memories and a partner that has always been there for you and your family and will always be there. God's Promise is that a life lived in him never ends. I pray you find comfort in God's promise of eternal life and knowing that Dexter lives and loves you still. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family and I pray that God will continue to touch you with his warmth and loving care. His life may seem to have been too short but it was well lived and full of love. Your Friend--Love you Toni

Dexter was a friend that everyone wanted and needed. He was loyal, supportive, and always positive. Words cannot express the emptiness I felt when I learned of his passing. For all of the ways that he poured inspiration into my life, my family will make sure we do the same for LaVera, Nia, Nigel and Noah. You will be missed, but never forgotten. Rest in power, my friend. Pamela Johnson Branch

Our prayers go out to you LaVera, Nia, Nigel and Noah, and all of the Williams Family. Dexter has always been a nice supportive cousin in many ways. We will never forget for even a day how special and a kind person. I would call him farmer boy, because he was from the big apple New York. He would come down to North Carolina in the summer and work in the fields with his grandparents. He remembered that a little love goes a long way, and it goes forever. He remembered Friendship is a wise investment and life's treasure are people together. Continue to reach for your goals, count your blessings and not your troubles. We will truly miss him but his legacy will live on. God bless the family. RIP Love Cousin Cecil, Cynthia, Daniel, Chanda and Brandon

Sending my deepest condolences to Dexter's family... He was such a gentleman and it was my pleasure being one of his clients... He was always so helpful... truly will be missed ....RIP.. Linda Frith

O Dog the nickname you gave me since childhood and always called me by will stick everytime I think of you. I hear it in my head in your voice right now.

We still have every memory, I was lucky to have been able to call you my uncle. The jokes about the rival schools, the morning workouts, the football games on Thanksgiving Day the nickname. The movies we all watched even though you paused them 20+ times. I have one regret. That is not calling on your Birthday. I am sorry. I texted but I should have called. It was the last time I would have been able to speak to you and I missed the opportunity. I took it for granted and just sent a text message and I am sorry. But I cherish the memories and want to continue to make you proud to be my uncle.

"Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened." ~ Dr. Seuss

Omari

Lavera, Nia, Nigel and Noah, I have been thinking about your loss and your pain since I have heard the heartbreaking news. We are deeply saddened by the devastating reality you awaken to daily. You are in our thoughts and hearts. -The Macdonalds

Dearest Lavera, Nia, Nigel, Noah and Dexter's family, we offer prayers of comfort. Dexter's love, strength, authentic character will be deeply missed. May the loving memories of him bring you comfort, peace and joy just when you need it. Whatever, and whenever you may want, need you know we are here for you. Lisa , Cedric and Charles- we love you!

I haven't been able to think straight since I heard this devastating news. Today I want to say "Thank you Lord" for letting me get to know him, pick his brain and learn from him. He always told me, " If you don't know, ask, cause they not gone tell YOU. You will be truly missed my brother. God watch over his family and bring them peace, comfort, and understanding at this most difficult time. James & Elsie Coleman

I am saddened to write this message about an amazing God fearing man who loved and lived well. However, I am reminded that to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord. Dexter will be missed greatly. He was a loving husband, father, son and friend. Your love for my dear friend, Lavera, was inspiring, admirable and sincere. Nia, Nigel and Noah had one of the best example of a father, a true gentleman, and a real man. I will always remember how he made everyone feel like family. We are stronger, wiser and more loving because of Dexter's impact. Well done, my friend! I will miss your warm smile and funny jokes...most importantly, I will miss YOU. Lavera, Nia, Nigel and Noah...we love you deeply and will always be here for you. Vanessa Jones (affectionately known by Dex as "V")

Dex was not only my cousin he was my friend, an advisor and always someone i could count on for jokes. Growing up we didnt see each other much him being in NY me living in NC. During the summer at family gatherings is where we saw each other. As we got older the summer gatherings some how turned into a basketball tournament with NY versus NC. As the elders talked we battled for hours in the gym. It was that part of the summer we looked forward to. Seeing our cousins and playing ball. Although Dexs Mom made us clean up and set up for the reunion it was worth it.

As we got older i moved to Richmond and later I found out Dex would be there. I was at VCU an he was going to be going to UR. I finally had family there. Dex was busy with football but we got together often visiting each others campus for events. During the next four years we became close. One of my best memories was when I went to NY with Dex. This was my first road trip with Dex and he showed me NY for the first time. It was still my best trip to NY.

After we graduated we remained close but as family life set in we didn't talk or see each other as much. When we did speak we picked up where we left off. Another reason this is so shocking is we spoke last week. He had the usually jokes but we talked about how he was looking forward to watching his son play college football. He was a very proud father of all of his kids.

Dex was a great man, father and husband who loved God and he will be truly missed. Once again thank you all and please share a memory with the funeral home.

LaVera, I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Dexter. I pray God gives you and your family strength and peace in this difficult time. I am thinking of you and sending prayers and love. Love, Tasha Booker

First let me send out my most Sincere Condolences to LaVera, Nia, Nigel and Noah. I could not forget Mr. Williams and Dexter's entire family. There is not enough words to convey what I am feeling right now. Dex you were my first friend when I moved to LI. We have shard so much together from playing in the street, to basketball in my driveway and even us sharing moments in your den just hanging out on video games and talking. I could go on forever on how much we have done together. So many things in common. We are those friends that could share anything. Growing up in NY in the 70's and 80's being around the streets. Knowing about the streets, but with great navigation from our parents staying out of the streets, for the most part. I asked you to become my 1st born's Godfather and you readily accepted. I knew what type of influence you would be in his life and you have been true to form. Man, I could go on for days. Brother, this is what I do know, I'll remember all of our talks and all of what you have imparted in me over the many years. You were and are the moral compass that could shift things in the right direction. I say to LaVera and the children, they will have my help with anything and everything within my power. My children send Prayers, Love and Blessings. (Darrien, Noah, Trinity). Your Memory and Spirit will be with me always. Love You Dex!!!

LaVera, I am so sad for you and your children. Losing someone you love is tragic, especially at such a young age. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your children, and the entire Williams family. May the love of Jesus surround you and comfort you. In Christ, Slim

My heart aches for LaVera, Nia, Nigel, and Noah. Dexter was not only my best friend's husband, he was like a brother to me. When I gave birth to my daughter Bryn, he brought me dinner in the hospital. I remember my mom and I saying "what guy does that?" Dexter Williams, that's who. I will miss you calling on my birthday and the family get togethers. I will miss you and Wayne texting back and forth about a game. I miss you interrupting one of me and LaVera's two hour long conversations. Please just know I've got LaVera. Rest in Peace, I love you. Darolyn.

Sitting here try to figure out what to say, every time I start I just cry . You wasn't just my cousin but my brother for real, just like my brothers Greg Mark Reg JoJo Ricky Gerald William and Crenshaw. We couldn't wait until 4th of July weekend so we would meet up at the family reunion so we can catch up, play some ball go back to Jackie houses in play card listen to music in just get caught up with everything. I appreciate all the talks we had and how you looked out for my daughter destiny when she was in VUU. Just like when your moms and my moms, sweets they called each other. I can go all day just talking about how big your heart was I love you bro me destiny and my family will truly miss you

My heart is broken at the news of Dexter's passing. I first met Dexter on our recruiting trip to UR. He was from NY and I as from NJ. We got along immediately. I as so happy when he became my teammate and classmate that fall. Dexter was a man of integrity and humility. From the first moment I met him I knew he stood apart from the crowd. God bless Dexter and the Williams family. He will be missed but I know that he is in Heaven standing out from the crowd.

Dexter's impact on his community was so profound. As a husband, father, businessman and friend, he provided a tremendous blueprint for Nigel and Noah to follow as they mature into young men. And Nia has the ultimate example of what a GENTLEMAN looks like as she moves forward in life. Personally, I will always remember the "jewels of knowledge" that my big brother dropped on me when we'd get together. Those times of laughter and comradery will be cherished by me for the rest of my life. Even in his passing, he is still showing me things - specifically that time is the most valuable asset that we have and should not be wasted. Dexter most certainly used his time to build an amazing legacy that will endure. LaVera, Vanessa and I will always be there for you and the kids. Love, Chris Jones

My first day of college cousin dexter showed me so much love. Even throughout my college years he always made sure to check to see if I'm okay and needed anything and i always appreciated that. He always wanted me to work hard so that i could take care of myself. We even planned to go to lunch every week and that's something i never took for granted. Thank you Dexter for everything we miss and love you

We pray for God's grace and peace at this time. All who knew Dexter were blessed to have him in our lives. He blessed this earthly world for his designated time. Now, he rests in Glory and continues to watch over your entire family. Prayers are with you. God is with you. Lydia and Ken Johnson

When a great man with a good heart and integrity crosses your path, he leaves an impression that imprints your own heart and path; that makes you a better person who wants to pass on that level of love, care and intention to others. Dexter was indeed that kind of man, and he will be deeply missed. Every time we crossed paths in the nearly 20 years I knew him, he made my children and me not only feel welcomed as friends, but also like we were part of his family. He was a role model on how to treat all the same, deeply love those in your care, and work with excellence and vision toward the calling set before you. As my heart breaks for you LaVera, Nia, Nigel, Noah, Mr. Williams (Dex's dad) and your extended family, I smile through my tears; because I know that the legacy Dexter created will live on - through your beautiful and loving family, and through each of us who shared hugs and laughs with, and received wisdom, hope and smiles from your beloved husband, father and son. Praying for God to comfort you as only He can and reminding you that we are always here for you - as friends and as family. - Stacy, Sydney and Donald "Jay" Adams

LaVera, I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what you and the kids are going through. Dexter was such a great guy. He was authentic and genuine and he truly cared. His smile just made you feel good. There is a unique bond among the Richmond team, especially the group that came in as Freshmen in 1986. You could feel that bond whenever we saw each other. I wanted to relay a quick story that happened recently. I think of Dexter as a teammate, my family thinks of him as our insurance agent. In fact, Dexter is the agent for my entire family. He has been taking care of my parents for years. My father had a debilitating stroke some time ago and eventually was placed in a nursing home. He died last summer. A few weeks after he passed Dexter called me to offer condolences. He had just called my Mom to check on her and she told him the news. My mother told me that Dexter would call her regularly to check in and see how she was. That just doesn't happen these days, but Dexter did it. He knew that my siblings and I were close with my mom, but he still would call to make sure she was OK. Things like that made Dexter who he was. One last thing, he always made me look bad. Whenever we would see Dexter, Jackie would give me a hard time about the way I dressed. We even ran into he and Nigel at Krispy Kreme one night in the middle of week and he looked like he was ready for a GQ photo shoot. Jackie always said that he was the best dressed of all my friends. You and your family are in our prayers. Chris Tully

I would like to send Mr. Dexter family, I sincere sympathy. I met Mr. Dexter 26 or more years ago. He treated me more like family instead of a client. When ever I had a problem, he will fine away to solve them for me. As time moved on, I gotten married and he had to meet my husband and the hit it off from day one. We have lost a great man. I will keep the family life up in prayers. Be blessed.

I am sorry for your loss. You have our deepest sympathy. Please know you are in our prayers. Love Uncle Maurice & Aunt Eva

Your family here in Massachusetts is devasted to hear of your loss Lavera, Nia,Nigel,and Noah. We're devasted for you and broken over your loss. We will continue to keep your family in prayer. Rose,Stephanie, Stevie-Rose and all your family in Massachusetts send their love.

Matthew 5:4 - Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.

Lavera and family, we send our deepest sympathy for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of bereavement. May God keep you and give you strength. We love you and we are here for you. Love, Uncle Frank and Aunt Barbara

The other day I was sitting in front of my house on my porch having a conversation with God (something I often do) I asked God to please send me a sign (one that I would know) that Mr D did not suffer nor was afraid when he passed. This was on Monday the 27th...I found it extremely difficult to except that he was gone and my spirit was deeply troubled. Thinking about his wife ( my boss) and his wonderful, awesome kids I just wouldn't accept the facts. A few days later on Thursday the 30th I found myself once again sitting on my porch conversing with God asking him to tell Mr D that I will stand by and support his wife and children however I can. Suddenly from no where I looked up and there was a hummingbird hovering in front of me. Not above my head but directly in front of my face...Normally I would have broken my neck to get away from it ( not that I'm afraid of birds, but it was definitely to close for comfort)but it just hovered there for about a good 5 seconds. Then it flew away, not before turning its head a looking me straight in the face. I didn't think anything about it really, but I did think it strange. Oh well, I I thought and continued with my day. Something said to Goggle what does seeing a hummingbird after a loved passes away means....I wasn't ready, it said.... It could mean a loved one came to let you know that they made it safely to Heaven and that they were fine....Thank you Mr D for coming to me and helping me to accept that I will no longer hear......" Hey Layne" Now every time I see a hummingbird, I will always think of you....

Brah! (as you often greeted me) Where do I go from here? The thought of the new normal saddens me. As I think of the holidays, and celebrations, they will never be the same without your presence. In your spirit, we will do our best to carry on, but it will be difficult as you were the heart and soul of those moments. Thank you Brah, for the 30+ years of memories. Love, Phil

We were devastated to hear the sudden death of DEXTER, he was not just friend of our children, Cheray and Vincent but also a coworker of my husband at Fortunoff's in Long Island. At Christmas time he would visit our home and argue with me that I just pulled my tree from a large box. I would say Dexter it took four days to put it together and he would just laugh. He was such a gentle man. Our sympathy to his family may his soul Rest In Peace and rise in glory.

A Class Act... Gone way to soon my dear friend. I can still see you #20 running down the sidelines on sweep right for a touchdown!! Dexter always made time for people. He'd always stop by to see my sister and my parents when he was in the neighborhood. I can't forget the time he actually visited me in Vegas for a morning run before work. Thank you Lord for having Dex come into our life! We will all miss A Class Act

Your Brother Always & Forever Vinnie Sampson

You and your entire family are in my thoughts and prayers. Love your cousin Margarerta Clark in Martinsville Va

Sending prayers and my deepest sympathy to the families and friends of Mr. Dexter and LaVera Williams Your cousin Lisa Brown in Martinsville Va.

To the family of the late Dexter Williams: May the blessings of God bless your wife and children as they carry on your legacy. He will take care of them.

Nancy Lee, Brenda, and James Burden Cousins in Portsmouth, VA

It has been very emotional these past few days. Dex has gone home to be with our Father God too soon for us but right on time for God who knows best God makes no mistakes. Dex loves his family unconditionally and with strong devotion. He blatantly expressed his unwavering love and commitment to his wife every moment of each day. He boisterously demonstrated his unyielding support for his children and nephew in every sport they participated in. He prayed for them and pushed them to be their best athletically, socially, physically, academically and spiritually; and, he proudly expressed satisfaction with their excellent results. Even though Dex is not here physically, he is still here spiritually. All who love him and whom he loves will be blessed to feel his presence. He will let us know that he is still with us. You may open the Bible and the page may flip right to a passage or page that gives you a message from Dex. You may hear a whisper in your head or on your heart encouraging you to do something that you may not normally do but you know he would want you to do. You may hear a stranger say some exact words that Dex used to say. Or you may be sitting quietly and a special memory of Dex might pop in your mind from nowhere. There will be all types of occasions where Dex will show up in our lives. So be sure to keep your eyes and hearts open so we recognize his presence when he chooses to show us that he is still here. All My Love! MDB

It is truly a pleasure to have known you and been able to experience the wonderful man you were. God makes no mistakes and he only takes the best. There is peace in knowing that you are in a better place watching over all of us. I will personally do my part in making sure Ms. Lavera and the kids are well taken care of and supported. I'll even make sure the filters get changed and the paint stays fresh at GH! Rest in peace, Mr. Dexter!

It is with great sadness that I offer my sincere and heartfelt condolences to Lavera, Nia, Nigel and Noah and the entire Williams family and friends on the untimely and unexpected loss of a great husband, father, son and friend. I will always remember Dexter as an outstanding person both professionally and more importantly as a patriarch who loved his family. As many outside of Dexter's immediate family can attest to, that love, care and guidance for family extended far beyond the boundaries of a blood relationship. I am grateful for the times that my son Donald Jay got to tag along with Nigel and his dad. I am convinced that Dexter's invested interest and instruction helped develop Donald Jay and of course Nigel into athletes that will soon compete at the collegiate level. The last words I heard Dexter say I have on video from the senior boys last Homecoming game. With great energy and enthusiasm he yells "They pushed him". He was referring to the push the football team gave Donald Jay that helped get him into the endzone for a score. Those words embodied how Dexter lived and I believe that is what he leaves for his family and friends to continue to carry out. Keep pushing, keep believing and keep moving forward as your efforts to live life to the fullest and to God's glory will etch in stone the celebrated legacy of a great husband, father, son and friend. May God's peace be with you and continue to comfort you. -Donald J. Adams Sr.

While I'm challenged to find the strength and words of comfort, I can only think of the brotherhood we formed over the years. My heart and mind are in disbelief, but my spirit will always be with you. You helped me to become a better me through your drive and the example you set by being an outstanding husband and father. We shared many of the same beliefs and principles in life. I appreciate you accepting me and my family as a part of yours and I'm committed to carrying your success forward and being an ongoing part of your family. We will be in great support of LaVera, Nia, Nigel and Noah. Continue to watch over us my brother. We love you and will miss you forever. The lord has gained a great helper. Until we meet again. -Jamal Slappy and Family

Dexter, there are no words to describe what you've meant to our family! Who provides a full course meal for 2 little girls in the middle of Super-Bowl! DEXTER! You did this for my girls! This is the example of the man you were! The giver and caretaker of everyone around you. Jamal and I are so proud to have found a friend in you and Lavera. Thank you for praying over our new home. Thank you for spending so much quality time with us. You were the funniest person that I've met! It was always a laugh and a great time when we hung out! Jamal will miss the monthly hang-out's! He will miss the guy talk! You were so special to him. You must know that we will take care of LaVera! I will check on her often. Jamal will make sure the boys football career has a continuous legacy of support and Nia will always be our girl! We love you so much! Make sure you save the best jokes for us when we see you again. I know you are dressed in your Louis Vuitton Robe and your Gucci Sandals. Fly as ever! Love you brother! Forever in our hearts! Vannessia and Jamal

It is with a heavy heart that I sorrowfully send my condolences to the Williams family. I regretfully have only had the pleasure to be in Dexter's and LaVera's company on few occasions. However, his outgoing personality and the genuine loving relationship that existed between he and LaVera was evident from our first encounter. I talked and laughed with them as if I had known them for years. They are truly an authentic, genuine, family oriented and loving couple that instantly became a part of our extended family. The genuine love they had for one another was clear to anyone who was in their company even for a few moments. Dexter and LaVera made such a profound impact onme the very first time we met. Dexter and LaVera made you feel at ease and very comfortable.

I am very thankful for the relationship that they have with my sister and her family.

Dearest LaVera, please know that you and your children are extended members of the Parker and Dawson family for support and whatever you may need at any time.

God Bless you and your family. You are in our constant thoughts and prayers.

Sorrowfully Submitted, Charles J. Dawson

What a great son!! You will be in my heart forever. You made me the proudest father that any man can be. I love you so much and I will always miss you. Love, Dad

On the 27th of April, the Lord reached in his garden picked a Special Flower and returned it Home "Dexter". Our hearts are heavy, filled with sadness, we know the Lord makes no mistakes. Dexter, you will truly be Missed!!! Our Thoughts, Prayers and Condolences goes out to the Williams Family. Love you Cuz, The Bazemore Family of VA.

He always greeted you with open arms and a big, big, smile...that greeting will be missed by all. We will love and remember you until our last days. Love, Martha Freeman and Joe "Bud" Lee

LaVera and the entire Williams family, my heart aches for our loss but rejoices for Heaven's gain. I pray for you all a peace that surpasses understanding. With Love, Erriel and Elisa Roberson

You are a Diamond in the ruff. You will always be missed and never forgotten. GOD Bless

Uncle Reginald

To LaVera, family and friends, The Lord is near to the broken hearted and to them that mourn. My heart breaks for your sudden loss of Mr Dexter. I know that you loved and cherished him dearly. Please know that you are in my prayers. May the memories you all have shared over the years be a reminder of the love and passion that he had for his family ,and those he held close to his heart! May the Lord cover and keep you during this time and for days to come. Blessings, Elfreda Tyler-Anderson

Erwin Matthews

LaVera and family, my condolences are with you and may God continue to bless you and give you strength during this difficult time. Dexter was a friend, competitor and a good teammate. We always had our friendly banter about my b-school and his economics experience.....I will miss him. Gone too soon! RIP, my brother!

We were deeply saddened to hear of Dexter's passing. Our hearts are very heavy with sympathy for his family and loved ones. We will always have treasured memories of Dexter at family reunions, graduation celebrations and many other special events. We will solely miss Dexter and his contagious laughter and beautiful smile. Please know that we are thinking of you and sympathizing with you all during this time of great loss. We love you guys and pray that the Lord will comfort you and give you peace. Barbra and Clarence Matthews

Instead of duplicating what others have said about the truly extraordinary man Dexter was, I'll share what he was to me --a wonderful friend. I've known him since I was 12. We met in junior high, and even though we went to our prom together, we were only ever the best of friends.Throughout school we had classes together, watched each other date, grow, and go off to college, but we never lost touch. We'd go to plays and dinners in NY during college breaks, and keep up by phone through the year. He was like family. Even my parents loved him. I'll never forget when my husband and I met his love, LaVera. She was perfect for him and they built an amazing life for their three children. Although life changed, Dexter didn't. In nearly 40 years, we each only missed birthday phone calls one time! He was the most loyal friend I know. If he cared about you, he showed up for you, time and time again. I was so proud of the man he became and grateful for his (and V's) friendship. I am heartbroken to lose my friend. The world needs more men like him. I send all who loved him my deepest sympathy, but especially LaVera, Nia, Nigel, Noah and Mr. Williams. -Deidra Parrish Williams

My deepest condolences to the entire family. I was so saddened to hear of my cousin's passing. Dexter was a distinguished gentleman who always carried a very caring, unselfish, and kind spirit. He always showed concern about others. Even though we didn't see each other often whenever I would see him in North Carolina he would always ask me how are things going? how do I like my new line of work?...etc., and he would always have something positive to say at the end of our conversation. Rest easy cousin. Wishing peace to Lavera,the kids, and the entire family. I'm praying that peace will bring comfort and courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in our hearts.Cousin Dexter, you will be truly missed and never forgotten....Daphne

I was devistated to learn that my brother Dexter transitioned to Heaven on Tuesday. I'm glad to have had the opportunity to become good friends with him and his family. In society, we always hear that there are no good men in the world, which I beg to differ because Dexter was exactly that. Actually he was a Classic Man. It's rare to find someone who was so driven to succeed in life. Never bragged, didn't talk bad about anyone, always was respectful, never got into trouble even though he always try to prove he had some hood in him? I recall meeting him for the first time during freshman basketball. I recall him winning ever since then, because his team Lawrence Road beat my team Hempstead in freshman basketball which never happened before. It wasn't until a couple of years later that we were reintroduced by his childhood friend Devon Ware that our friendship started to grow. We had some good times that I will always reflect on. When we spoke last week, and discussed getting together once this corona pandemic is over. I appreciate that last call and will forever celebrate our friendship. Always will have respect & love for you and your beautiful family bro. R.I.P.- Christopher Webb

To Dexter, I want to say thank you. It was an honor to know you and watch you raise your family. To Lavera, Nia, Nigel and Noah, we are here for you - The Scott family, Khary, Danielle, Elle and Jackson

Lavera and family my deepest sympathies goes out to you and your family during this sad and difficult time. May the love and memories lift your heart. You have so many families and friends that are there for you, reach out to them and your faith. He will be watching over all of you. Watch for his signs. Brandy Chinn

Dear LaVera,Nia, Nigel & Noah, My heart breaks for you all, I was so sorry to hear about this loss for your family. Dexter always made me smile when he would come to pick up Noah for an appointment and we would always have to wait on him and we would have a laugh. I know how much he loves you all and vice versa. You all are a remarkable family. Much love and peace to you all. ~Elisabeth Jacobs

Mr. Dexter Williams was the prime example of a friend, he meant so much to so many. He will always be remembered in our hearts.

To Lavera, Nia, Nigel and Noah

Don't cry for me, I will be okay. Heaven is my home now, and this is where I'll stay. Don't cry for me, I'm where I belong. I want you to be happy and try to stay strong. Don't cry for me,it was just my time. But I will see you someday on the other side. Don't cry for me I am not alone, the angels are here with me to welcome me home. Don't cry for me for I have no fear, all my pain is gone and Jesus took my tears. Don't cry for me, this is not the end. I'll be waiting here for you till we meet again.

Kim and Elford Dawkins

At this difficult time in your life, I pray that God will grant you the serenity and peace that you need to get through this. My prayers to the family. Autumn Evans

It is extremely difficult to find the right the words to say right now. To the family and close friends of Mr. Dexter I am extremely sorry for the sudden loss. There is strength in vulnerability. God has a way of turning our toughest times into our greatest motivation - Mr. Dexter will truly be missed. The ability that he had to light up the entire room will never be forgotten. As I write this message I am able to smile and laugh a bit because that's what his presence did for us all. The last time that he saw me he said that I should trade in my coop for a mini van if I really wanted a family LOL. He will truly be missed - ShaHadah Barrett

I've gone over and over a million times what I should say. I'm still in such disbelief. My deepest condolences to you LaVera, Nia, Nigel, Noah and Aunt Great. Dex was an amazing man, husband and father. The last time we were together was my nephew wedding. As we all sit together talking and laughing I said how I admired your love for each other. Your gentle, humble spirit will truly be missed. LaVera , Nia, Nigel and Noah Know that he will always be with you ... you will see him in the smallest things. Hold tight to the memories , the quirky things that made you laugh, the spirit of humanity and his love for everyone. Rest well Dex love you family Jina Law~

Our deepest condolences to the Williams family. LaVera, Nia, Nigel and Noah - we hope that your memories bring you comfort and your faith gives you strength during this difficult time. Our prayers are with you. With love, Verna, Jonathan, Aaron and Andrew Duhart

Our brother Dexter, affectionately called "Uncle Dex", our hearts are overwhelmed with great sadness and sorrow. We will forever cherish the fond memories of our family vacations and the celebrations of every special occasion. Our 2 families somehow blended into one. We lived, loved and laughed - a lot!! I will miss our Sixers pre-game routine, going to DelFrisco's Double Eagle Steak House, watching you look at the menu and act like you're not going to order a 6oz filet, lobster tales and asparagus. Then after the game hitting Ashton's for post game. I will still text you after the Eagles vs Giants game and wait for you to not respond. I will always hear you say "4 time Super Bowl Champs". I will forever be appreciative of your encouragement and real estate advise. Your love and admiration for LaVera, Nia, Nigel and Noah was unparalleled. Rest well good brother. Well done! Wayne and Darolyn

LaVera, Nia, Noah and Nigel. It's with deepest sympathy that I write this note to you. I share in your sadness with the loss of Dexter. I will continue to lift you in prayer. The memories will carry you through as you lead the life without him. . Our sincerest condolences to you and the family. Donald, Detra, Amenah, and Ariel Hunt.

The Parkers

To all that loved him as I did, our hearts are heavy as we grieve the home going of our beloved son Dexter Williams. Dexter was a religious man who loved his God, and always carried himself in the admiration of his faith. He loved his wife, his children, his dad, and all of his family and friends. Nothing pleased Dexter more than being in the company of his family and friends. He knew the importance of working hard to support his family and to set good examples for his children. He was a loving father, slow to anger and always greeted everyone with a smile. I never saw Dexter angry. He was proud of his children and he wanted nothing but the best for them. Dexter was truly a great person. He will forever be missed. Rest in peace Dexter, until we meet again on the other side. Papa Tuck.

Our brother Dexter, affectionately called "Uncle Dex", our hearts are overwhelmed with great sadness and sorrow. We will forever cherish the fond memories of our family vacations and the celebrations of every special occasion. Our 2 families somehow blended into one. We lived, loved and laughed - a lot!! I will miss our Sixers pre-game routine, going to DelFrisco's Double Eagle Steak House, watching you look at the menu and act like you're not going to order a 6oz filet, lobster tales and asparagus. Then after the game hitting Ashton's for post game. I will still text you after the Eagles vs Giants game and wait for you to not respond. I will always hear you say "4 time Super Bowl Champs". I will forever be appreciative of your encouragement and real estate advise. Your love and admiration for LaVera, Nia, Nigel and Noah was unparalleled. Rest well good brother. Well done!

It has taken me all day to process this, but I need to accept it and say Rest In Peace Dex. I've spent the whole day reminiscing about a group of little snot nosed kids that met in elementary school and kept a friendship for a lifetime. Even though you were a year younger than the rest of our crew you always had an outsized personality and never took a back seat to anyone. I don't remember exactly when it happened, but I do remember the day that you, me, Devin Waring, Stuart Rookwood, Marc Richardson, Eric O. Sergeant, Angelo Smith, Eon Rambharan, Derrick Pompey, Roddy Justice, Siji Obi, and a few others gave our little rag tag crew a name - The Local Boys. We were known as that for the remainder of our school years and beyond. You're the first one from that crew that has transitioned to paradise. It was shocking, and completely unexpected. I just spoke to you a few weeks ago when you checked up on me, and I was expecting to get with you and the other Local Boys sometime this summer for a reunion. Hopefully the rest of us can still get together in your memory. I pray for your family that God may help them heal from your loss. Sleep well old friend. I'll see you on the other side. Love you always - The Local Boys

My heart goes out to the family at this time. Extending our deepest sympathies to the family,our prayers and blessing are with you as well. DebraTeasley & Family

LaVera, Nia, Nigel and Noah - My deepest sympathies go out to you during this very difficult time. May the love and prayers of family and friends bring you comfort. - Susan Tippins

Here's to the greatest cousin a person could only hope to have in one's life. Dexter Williams was a devoted son, loving husband, the greatest father to Nia, Nigel and Noah, a vibrant-loving nephew, an encouraging brother and a "one of a kind-classic" friend who will never be forgotten. To me, he was the world's greatest cousin. We will always love and will miss you-Cousin Dexter! And for those of us who are left behind... we will cherish your beautiful memories....May the Lord, our God, continue to bless and keep us: May the Lord make his face to shine upon us, and be gracious towards us. Until we meet again... RIP Dexter-my buddy, my friend, my cousin! In the words of Smokey Robinson: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kislv45mMug

LaVera, Mr. Williams, Nia, Nigel and Noah, my heart aches for the pain I know you all are experiencing at this time. We all are still in shock. All I can do is wish you Faith to encourage and comfort you, and heal your broken hearts. And to pray that the memories you have of a life well lived with Dexter will one day bring you peace and joy. Please know we hold you all in our hearts. And I know God will sustain you and guide you just as He has for me. I love you and will keep you in my prayers. Aunt Forestine and family

Well done good and faithful servant, you will be missed. Edith

To the Williams Family, Dexter was a wonderful husband and father. Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your heart. With heartfelt sympathy. - Joseph, Lisa, Drew and Alyssa Acquaye

Uncle Dexter has been in my life since the day I was born and I cherish every moment I got to spend with him. He always knew how to read a room and crack a joke at the perfect time. I know that he continues to live through Aunt Lavera, Nia, Nigel, and Noah. He made me a stronger person and showed me what a hard worker truly looks like. I've looked up to him my entire life and I'm thankful that I had such a great role model in my life. I love you forever, Uncle Dexter and you will always be remembered. - Amaya Gray

My dad was a great man who always wanted the beat for everybody he knew. He pushed people to accomplish things they would have never thought possible for themselves, and he made everybody around him a better person. His great drive, and work ethic are 2 traits I admired most about him. I loved him very much and he will be missed everyday. RIP dad, love Nigel

To Lavera, Nia, Nigel, Noah, and the entire Williams family, There are no words that can adequately express the pain and hurt we are feeling for you during this time. Dexter was an amazing man and such a joy to be around. Todd and I will cherish the times that we spent with you guys laughing over dinner, hanging out, and turning Nia's graduation party into an "OLD SCHOOL" 90's Jam. You guys gave us an example of what a family full of love should look like, and I pray that God will keep and comfort you during this time. We love you guys, and we are here for you! Love, Kimberly, Todd, and Alyssa Hicks.

My deepest sympathy to LaVera, the children and the Williams Family. May God hold you all in the palm of his hand, always. May you feel his love in your heart and your soul. May you find comfort and strength in this time of your need. Today and forevermore I pray. Carlita Boyd-Bryant

We are so sorry for your loss. May God help to ease this painful period for you and your family. ~DeMond and Karen Chapman

Dexter was always a joy to be around and left this earth much too soon. LaVera, Nia, Nigel and Noah, your in our prayers. May GOD strengthen and comfort you during this tragic time. - Delando, Treena and Brandon Bonner

The measure of a man is his legacy. You stand tall amongst the redwood trees. You loved with total freedom! You celebrated family and taught all who knew you how to value those we love. You were a teacher to anyone willing to learn. You questioned when you didn't know the answer and shared freely when you did. You withheld nothing. Greatness is to be shared and you demonstrated that very well. You never walked alone. Along your life journey, you sought out others to lift up, to pour wisdom into -- all that was required was desire and grit.Your impact extends far beyond family and friends. There are pieces of you everywhere from the gym to your favorite restaurant -- lives were changed because your light shined so brightly.You made us laugh... often only because you were laughing. Today I stand in our traditional family circle... I am thankful that God blessed our family to love and be loved by you; to have you as an amazing standard of a true man of God. I am thankful you epitomized what a husband and father should be and loved my daughter like she was your own. Thank you for being you! Let's have one last glass of Pinot Noir... You are missed my beautiful brother. i LOVE you... Sonya Hairston

My sincerest thoughts, prayers and love go out to the entire Williams family. While I never had the chance to meet Dexter, I know what kind of young man Nigel is and there is no doubt that he was raised with love, loyalty, and kindness. I remember seeing Dexter's face light up while Noah was on stage during the winter play and it was so obvious how proud he was of him. The Collegiate community holds you in our hearts! Hannah Curley

To the Williams family, we are thinking about you and sending prayers and love to give you the strength, comfort and peace during this difficult time. Sharma's

To LaVera, Nia, Nigel, Noah, and the entire Williams family, We were so sad to hear of Dexter's passing. The love you all had for each other was always evident, which I always admired. May God keep you in the palm of his hand during this difficult time. We are praying for you. The Schutt Family

Our deepest condolences to LaVera, Nigel and the entire Williams family on the loss of Dexter. We are devastated for you and heartbroken over your loss. Sending you so much love and many prayers during this incredibly difficult time. Anne Bruce, George and Emma

To the Williams Family, but especially to Nigel and to Noah: You are so loved! You are two remarkable young men, and I know you must have made your father so proud. He lives on in you, and we are lucky for that. Hug each other often and know that we look forward to doing the same when we see you next. Love -- Jere, Sally, Emma and Hugh Williams

Dear Williams Family, We are so saddened to hear of Dexter's passing. Please know that we are holding you close in thought and prayer during this difficult time in your lives. May God hold you all close and give you peace and ease. The Ryan Family (Mary Margaret, Russ, Clay and Marshall)

To the Williams Family-We were so very sad to hear of the passing of your dear beloved Dexter. May God hold you close, comfort you gently and give you peace and strength now and in days to come. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family during this very, very sad time. Margaret& Herman Jenkins & Stephenson Family

We are so saddened to hear of your loss. Please know your family is in our hearts, thoughts and prayers. Katherine, MacGregor, Dunning and Clara Gould

To the Williams Family - please know that all of you are in our thoughts. We were very saddened to hear of Dexter's passing, and we immediately recalled memories of our chats at various athletic events at Collegiate and throughout Richmond. It was clear that he had a zest for kids doing well, and was very encouraging. We are blessed to have crossed paths with him, and will continue to pray for your family. The Eddletons

I miss you so much; I cannot stop calling your name. When you walked out of the door Monday morning at 10:42am, how could I have known it would be our last goodbye? "Ok Dex, see ya, have a good day". The last words I spoke to you. I keep telling myself, you're going to wake up and say "God, what an awful dream"!! I know that isn't going to happen. I know God welcomed you home and you are smiling down on me saying, "wow Mup, get it together, you know you are the Matriarch of this family". Your words so often spoken to me. I love and cherish you my son. Until we meet again. Mup

Our hearts are saddened today. God called home a faithful servant. I first met Dexter while attending an insurance certification class and later met LaVera. Dexter loved his family, nothing was more important and he demonstrated his devotion to them by his actions. His warm bright smile and playful demeanor will truly be missed. Nia, Nigel and Noah may you always hear your father's words of wisdom guiding you, and may you always feel his love everywhere you go. LaVera, may you find peace in the knowledge that he loved you deeply. We were so blessed to know him while he was here. Please accept our sincere condolences. Dymphia, Mario, Nailah-Bena and Niara-Maysa Chambers

My Father was an amazing man. Whenever I did something similar to his goofy personality, everyone would joke "that's Dexter's son". I now realize how much of an honor that is. I realize how important that's going to be, because I'm going to be carrying a piece of him with me for the rest of my life. This still does not feel real. It doesn't but it is. His life was cut short but it was a wonderful life. He wanted the best for everyone and he was a good man. He touched our hearts in so many ways and that's why so many people are hurting right now. The way he shaped me and anyone else reading this is truly amazing. Because he was an angel way before he died. No words are going to be able to completely summarize the impact of his life or his death. But I love him. So many people love him, and I find comfort in the fact that he's in a much better place. I love you Dad now and always. I know you'll be their watching over me, and I want you to know we will be ok. Until the day we meet again. Love Noah

To the love of my life, God created you for his divine purpose not ours. He never promised us that we would have you forever. He sent you from heaven to bless me with a special kind of love that most people only dream of. You were my rock, my constant joy, my hero, my ride or die and I am so thankful that we shared so many wonderful years together. I'm sorry that our love story ended so abruptly because the ending was supposed to be as beautiful as the beginning. If I had known that Monday would be our last good-bye I would have held onto you longer, I would have made u promise to draw me a heart in the sky, I would have prayed and asked God if we could have a little more time, I would have kissed your lips a thousand times but I didn't know that you had to go. I'm so thankful that he gave me the opportunity to experience our love story. It was like no other. You were a wonderful man, an excellent father, and the best husband that I could ever have prayed for. I will never ever stop loving you Dex. You are forever in my heart. Lovie

My heart is so heavy not having my dad with me, he was the kindest, thoughtful, funniest, most down to earth person I have ever met. Having someone to look up to like my dad has been such a blessing, ever since I was little I have the absolute best memories with him such as our daddy daughter dates, sporting events, and holidays. These are now memories that I will cherish forever. My dad was my biggest role model and I will always look up to him the bond we had was everlasting and now he will be my guardian angel and with me in my heart everyday. Love, Nia Iman

I have thought about what I wanted to say a million times today and it will never be right but here goes. I didn't grow up with a dad but I grew up with three uncles and a poppa and y'all stepped right in and never missed a beat. I literally do not remember life without you in it. My first trip to Disney World, every Thanksgiving, Christmas, every summer, church at First Baptist, every graduation, my wedding, my kiddos. You gave me the "hard dad talks", you showed me that good things come from hard work and so work hard, you can't skip that step. You taught me to marry a person that would sweep me off of my feet. I watched you love my aunt better than any movie, year after year after year. You never stopped looking at her like she was pure magic. I watched you raise your kids and I took 1 million mental notes. When you held Brody, while we played corn hole or talked to Ad last Christmas (like everything she had to say was literally the most interesting thing you had ever heard), are still two of my favorite memories to date. I remember you taking me and the hubs out for a glass of wine and me finally feeling like a grown up. How you constantly reminded us the importance of family, gratitude, God, giving and hard work. And how unlike most, you actually modeled every single one of those things. I miss you. So much. And I know that probably won't stop. And that is ok. Because you meant that much. Thank you. Qui Qui, Douglas, Adelina and Alessandro

Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss...our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Even though I didnt get another chance to see you or meet your family after all these years I love you cousin Dexter and I know you're smiling down on your Beautiful wife and kids. Love you always your cousins Delettle Lassiter, Diondra, D'Mia and SJ

Dear LaVera and entire Williams Family, My Deepest Condolences, I was so shocked to hear of Dexter's passing. Please know you all are in our thoughts and prayers. With Sympathy and Prayer, Kimberly Wilson

My heartfelt condolences and prayers for Dexters family . Such a gentleman that I always enjoyed seeing when he would stop by Ruth's Chris for a bite to eat . I will miss his good company ! David G

To LaVera and the Williams Family, It is with a heavy heart that we are extending our sincere condolences for your loss. We are sending our thought and prayers at this very difficult time. Sincerely, Denise and Tyrone Dickerson

Levera we are so sorry to hear about Dexter. Back in Nigels baseball days he and Tymothy became friends and spent some time together. It was special to have you all as friends. Lots of baseball fun. May God bless you and the family. Bill Marie and Tymothy

Lavera and family, I am so sorry of your loss of a husband, companion, and dad of whom you were so close. Our prayers and thoughts are with you during this difficult time. I know that you have a great faith and that He will carry you all through. Much love to all, Beth Gardner and family Lam 3:22-23

To the Williams Family -- we are so sorry to hear about the passing of Dexter. Our family has been a client of his for over 20 years -- he was a great gentleman and advisor. We are deeply saddened by his passing and send our sincerest condolences to your family. The Beard Family

We were so sorry to hear about Dexter's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family as you go through this difficult time. We hope you find some comfort in the love and support of those around you. Your Collegiate family will always be there for all of you. Jana and John Barnes and family

My sister, Chris Hairston (Dexter's sister in law, married to Lavera's brother) always spoke so glowingly about Dexter. She gave him such high praises as a husband and a father. Seems like he was constantly doing something for or with his family. May we all leave such a loving legacy. My thoughts and prayers are with Lavera, Noah, Nigel, Nia and all who are suffering such a huge loss. May God bless you all.

Great photo Stephanie. Opens so many memories. R.I.P. Dexter. Can't help but tear up thinking of not fellowshipping with Dexter again on this side. Being so much older, we watched him grow from a youngster at summer reunions and family gathering to a wise and caring man. Lee blood ran through him and he was a true testament to what our family stands for. Always sincere and asking about your family. Just like him to go and get his wings early. God, he will be miss. We will surely keep his family in our prayers. Alonzo Cherry

We are so very sad to hear the news of Dexter. Our hearts are heavy. I am so happy that we were able to see him in February and as always he made me laugh. It is hard to understand why people are taken from us, but find comfort in knowing you were a special part of a well-lived life. When the Lord calls our loved ones home, he leaves a gift of memories in exchange. Blessings, Dr. & Mrs Roy Dawson

Praying for your family, as you continue to embrace the strength, laughs, memories, tears and more memories while GOD is working through Dexters loss to his awesome family. God gave us a chance to briefly allow our paths to cross. Ruby, Jordan and Greg Jones.

To the Williams Family, it has been a pleasure getting to know all of you over the years. It was especially fun this past summer and fall to spend more time with Dexter through Nigel's recruiting process. Dexter was always very serious and passionate when we spoke but as soon as he begin speaking about his children: Nia, Nigel and Noah a huge smile came to his face. Whether he was talking about their academic, athletic or acting careers he couldn't hide how proud he was, even if he tried! In my best Dexter voice, "COME ON GUYS!" Please know the Collegiate Football Family will ALWAYS be here for all of you. Love, Coach Collin McConaghy

Dexter my heart is filled with sorrow Cuz. I will always remember you following me around as kids while in NC for the summer. I am so grateful to have seen you summer before last with your beautiful daughter Nia and you sharing the joy of your family. You've always been such a well grounded, humble person, someone who was so very easy to love. You will be missed but never forgotten. LaVera, Nia, Nigel and Noah I know your hearts are heavy. I pray that God's love for you gives you strength, comfort and love to see you through your sorrow. I am here for you all. Heartfelt Love,

Beverly Magee Cousin, Illinois

To The Williams Family, We are so sorry to hear of Dexter's passing. Unfortunately, we never crossed paths with sports at Collegiate but we are here to support you! Praying for strength during this difficult time. The Wyatt Family

We are deeply saddened to hear of the passing of our dear cousin, Dexter. What an extraordinary man and life he led. There is a void now left in our family, but may his immediate family and extended family hold on to the precious memories left behind as well as knowing that he is in a truly better place. RIH cousin!! Chaka Gaither Jordan, Jermaine Jordan, Elizabeth Lee Gaither & Family

Lavera, Willams children, Aunt Betty, Uncle Ed, Franklin, Stephanie, and family: Mark and I want to extend our most heartfelt condolences during the challenging time. Dexter always had the purest heart that had an impact on me from the time we were small kids. Though we were not technically related by blood, I was still honored to call him "cousin". This is hard for us, but I know he is in a better place and is experiencing the pure joy of being with God. Psalm 34 says "the Lord is close to the broken-hearted, he rescues those whose spirits are crushed." I pray that you are comforted by his closeness at this time. All of our love, Mark and Mikkell (Mike) Roeland

Sending my deepest condolences to LaVera, the kids and the Williams family. You were a man who loved his family and so welcoming to me and Courtney whenever we came to visit. Courtney and I will surely miss you Dexter. Thanks for your caring heart. Rest In Peace. Love, Tanisha and Courtney

LaVera, my heart is so heavy for you and the children. I did not know Dexter very well, but I felt like did because of how lovingly you spoke of him. I pray God will give you peace and comfort in the days to come. Should you need anything, I am here for you. Much Love, DeeDee Amado

It is with profound sadness that I type these words. I cannot tell you how shocked we were to hear of Dexter's passing. It seemed unbelievable then and it still seems unreal today. While I wouldn't say that I was a close friend of Dexter, I had many opportunities to see him adore and dote over his beautiful family. There's no doubt that his love for them was immense and it radiated in their interactions and it was an inspiration for us all. Today I am reminded of the scripture that there's no sorrow that heaven cannot heal. I cannot imagine or truly appreciate all that LaVera and the kids are experiencing at this moment, but I am faithful that God sees and understands the depth of their pain and will provide solace like nothing else here on earth. I thank God for Dexter's life and all of the people that he has touched in immeasurable ways. I pray for his family's strength to endure this time of sadness and I look forward to seeing and embracing you all in the coming days. Rudene Haynes

My heart is extremely heavy LaVera for you and the children. Even though I didn't know Dexter very well, I felt I did because of how lovingly you spoke of him. I will continue to keep you and the children in my prayers and thoughts. I am here for you should you need anything. Love DeeDee Amado

We are so very sorry to hear of Dexter's passing. Your family is in our thoughts during this difficult time and will continue to be so in the coming days and weeks. Please do not hesitate to ask if there is anything you need. Fondly, The Zyglockes

Our hearts remain heavy following the passing of our friend Dexter. We have only known him as a wonderful and dedicated husband and father. Always so proud to share in the accomplishments of his children as well as seek out and celebrate the achievements of others. We are praying for LaVera and the children as we know that at this time you are experiencing unbelievable and unbearable sorrow. Trust and believe that God will sustain you and keep you. We are here for any needs you may have, now and in the future. With much love - Kelli, Kevin, Charles, Chelsie and Christopher Poindexter

If I know one thing about you Lavera, it is how much you loved Dexter. We have had many conversations through the years about marriage; your love for one another and your family has been an inspiration to me. The bond you and Dexter have shared has become even stronger throughout your marriage because you both put God at the center. You and Dexter put the time and dedication in with each other by making time for each other, dates , and sharing meaningful conversations. Dexter was a wonderful Christian man. He was a loving husband to you and did special things to continually show his love for you. He was a great father and his kindness and memories will live on through your 3 amazing children. I pray that God gives you all comfort and wisdom to help you deal with the sadness of losing your rock here on this earth. I pray that God helps you to find peace and even happiness to know that Dexter Is now with our Heavenly Father. Hold on to all those Special memories LaVera , until you meet again. -Sonya Carman

We are so deeply saddened by losing you too early Dexter. You always knew that the important thing about football was not football, but the work, love and respect gained through the game which you passed on to your son, my son and many other young men. I will always remember your kind words to me after our 2018 St. Chris win when you thanked Charles for his efforts, you were always there to lift up others. Now it is time for us to lift you up. Amen. Kelly and Tiff Armstrong

My thoughts and prayers go out to LaVera, Nia, Nigel and Noah, and all of the Williams Family. The Dexter I knew was a man full of passion and love. Dexter poured both into his family in all areas of their lives. He will be missed, his love remains. May God's guiding hand be strong for all. - Mark Palyo

Lavera and family, my heart is with you. I cannot imagine how hard this is for you. I'm thinking about you and sending love.

Love, Jessica Berliner

My Condolences R.I.H. #welive4ever #Halleluyah

To Lavera, children, Uncle Ed, Mrs. Betty, Franklin. Stephanie and family, it is with our deepest sympathy that we loss Dexter. He will surely be missed. It was always a pleasure to be in his company at family gatherings. His spirit will always be a beacon! God bless and comfort you. Respectively, Viki and Steve

We were very sorry to hear of the passing of Dexter. Dex and I were student - athletes at University of Richmond and I will always remember him as a hardworking and dedicated student-athlete during our time at UR. He and I would always seem to bump into each other in the training room getting treatment at the same time...he for football and me for basketball. He was such a good soul! We send our thoughts and prayers to LaVera, the children and the rest of the family. May your memories comfort you in your time of sorrow , and may the love you shared bring you strength in the days ahead.

Best Regards,

Greg Beckwith and Family

Dexter, you are my brother from another mother. You trusted me with your secrets and your family. I am forever blessed to have had you in my life. You are the epitome of a faithful, god fearing family man with compassion and a heart of gold. The impact you have left on your family, friends and the world will always be remembered and your legacy will live forever. RIP my brother! Lance

To the Williams family, my husband and I are heartbroken to hear of Dexter's passing. My husband remembers him being such an upbeat and friendly guy that would light up the room at ACAC. I will always remember hearing Lavera talk about him with such love and pride. A true blessing of a man. We will continue to pray for all of you. May God's grace be with you. Love to you all, Kelly and Chris Naughton

Ever have that cousin who was more like a brother? The one who is in your family photo because he is your parents' fourth child? The one who you spent your summers with and did all of your family vacations with because your moms were sisters and the best of friends, and by default your dads were best buds? Dexter was that cousin to me.

Dexter loved God, he loved his family, and he worked hard. While he is no longer with us physically, I know his spirit lives forever, and will continue to live through LaVera, Nia, Nigel, Noah, and the many lives he touched during is time on earth. My world changed on April 27, Chilly D, but you will forever be my brother-cousin. Love always, Steff

We are so sorry to hear of his passing. I knew a proud, proud father who enjoyed watching his children excel on the field and on the stage. Sending you all much love at this difficult time. - Sam, Angie, Tyler and Molly Hutchison

LaVera - my heart goes out to you and your family. I am so sorry you lost Dexter at such a young age. May you find strength in the love of your family and the concern of your friends. Very sincerely, Jane Riddle

I am shocked that my friend first and agent second is gone. I have his voicemail from just a few weeks ago on my phone. Tears are coming down my face as I listen to his enthusiasm and kindness. He always called me "Doc" - and he had such an easy and friendly manner about him. He would always talk about his kids and how proud he was of them. My prayer and blessings are with you. "Doc" - Chip Anderson

LaVera, and the Williams family... We were so sorry and shocked to hear that Dexter had passed. Although we did not know him well, whenever you spoke of him, it was obvious how much you loved him and your children. We extend our sincere condolences to you and pray that God will give you comfort and peace in the days ahead. God bless. Pearl and John Charles Thomas family

We are so sadden by your loss--our hearts are heavy. Please know we are praying for you, Nia, Nigel and Noah. With Love, Deborah, Gary, Sydney and Tolliver Mance

As a sales manager for Nationwide, I recruited Dexter right out of University of Richmond. We spent so much time together and my wife and I considered him part of our family. My son and daughter knew him well. What a great guy and such a terrible loss to his family and friends. Dexter so loved his wife and children. After going back to agency work myself, Dexter and I saw each other at district meetings and company events. He always joked with me about how it was my fault, he was with Nationwide. Dexter represent all agents in Virginia by serving on advisory councils and he did that so well. His death has certainly hurt my heart this morning but I so cherish the relationship over these past 30 years. My family prayers are with all of you who suffer in this loss. May God give you peace and strength. love, Jim and Delores Bocrie

Our hearts are so heavy for your loss we truly Love The Williams an Hairston Family, Only God knows How much we can bear. Your cousins Lynwood an Wendell Turner Praying God will comfort you each day.

Words cannot express how my heart aches now for my dear friend LaVera and her children. Our families go back to when our kids were tots. We have shared so many beautiful moments and milestones together. Dexter was my buddy, always playful and teasing me on some level. Undergoing my own health challenge recently, Dexter wanted to 'make sure my girl B was doing good!'. The last great dining experience out before the lockdown was them taking me out. We laughed so hard and had such a great time. That was Dexter, easy to be with and talk too. No talks were more memorable than those about our children and especially their futures. He beamed with such pride about his. Such a great father, great husband, great son, great friend, just such a great man. My tears are only comforted in knowing he is in the arms of our loving Savior. Sending my girl V and Nia, Nigel and Noah all my love and prayers. Rest well Dexter. You were a good and faithful servant. Until we meet again. Love, Brenna Lindsay, Alex and Lindsay Williams 82MQ2AG WAS

Debora Cherry Spencer posted below words of comfort:

Our family has truly suffered a great loss, and I for one am truly hurting. Dexter was such a caring, loving, and kind person. I think he made us all better people. Few people come into our lives when you see them, they just listen to you and make you laugh and feel so much better. That was our Dexter. A nice humble guy, lover of life, family, and of God. I thank God he is in the presence of our Lord resting in his mother's loving arms along with so many of our loved ones who have gone on. I cannot say good bye but so long for now. Truly gone too soon, but I know God does not make mistakes. I truly will miss you my dear cousin and friend. Sending prayers out to his immediate family, extended family and friends that God will grant them peace, strength and comfort knowing that Dexter has received His crown and all I can say is not good bye but so long for now, until we meet again. You will always be in my heart.

There were two things that you knew about Dexter each time you saw him or spoke with him: He loved his wife and his children deeply and he took great pride in nurturing his relationship with them. Although, you won't be with us physically, we won't forget your warm smile, your welcoming greetings and your probing intellect. We'll miss you my friend. Lavera, Nia, Nigel and Noah, we'll keep you in prayer. Derrick, Linda and the Thomas Family.

Dexter, Our dear, beloved brother and uncle, while our hearts are are heavy with grief, our hearts are also filled with the confidence that you are resting well in God's mighty presence! A blissful eternity well earned, brother. We love you and will miss you deeply until we meet again! -Thomi, Chris, Emma and Trey Hairston

My heart goes out to Lavera and the Williams family. A good man gone way too soon. I remember our talks during his workouts, mostly about our kids. He was so real and proud of them. We will miss you Dexter. - Mike Battle

"When a good man dies there is a void left in the world. One less warrior of what's good to stand against the wrong and injustice in this world. So we must take up the challenge and fill the void that was left by the death of a good man" Our sincere condolences to the #Williams family. Rest well my brother! Job well done! With Love: Lizbeth and Bradford D. Mackey

May God hold you and your family in the palm of his hand. I will always remember the passion with which Dexter watched every game, every play. His family was clearly his focus. Your Cougar Football family loves each of you! Please know we are here now and always. God Bless- the Deglau's

Still in shock over your loss. I haven't been able to get Dexter's voice out of my head - the 'COME ON GUYS!' at any given game, be it football or baseball. He was always so supportive and interested in what the guys were doing. My heart goes out to all of you. My hope is that the stories and memories you share will keep him with you always. Much love, Laura Stewart

To the Williams Family, Sending love to you in this time of loss of a loving and funny son, husband and father. Praying that the Lord will heal your broken hearts a little each day. I'm here to help in any way I can. Love you all! Sandra Mason

I am in utter disbelief as I am writing this. Dexter, my brother, you have done what many aspire to do: you have left behind a legacy of being a fun, loving, generous, hard working, kind, committed family man. God is thoroughly pleased with your work here. Even through my tears, I praise God for allowing us to be family and for blessing this Earth with your presence and now Heaven is even all the more blessed. Rest easy in eternal paradise my dear brother. ETERNAL PARADISE! I love you. -Chris Hairston

It sadden my heart that you left us so soon will always remember the welcome you gave me and the way you called my name.Love and miss you my nephew

You will be deeply missed my friend. Sending my thoughts and prayers to the William's family. May God comfort you during this difficult time.

My heart is so heavy right now. My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire family. Dexter will always be a great friend and mentor of mine. From our time together at UR to our days as fellow Nationwide agents. He will be deeply missed. R.I.P dear brother. Until we meet again!

Mequell Green

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