Nivan Johnathan Proctor (known as “John”) was born into the Proctor Family on January 29, 1985, an unexpected blessing, on a rare snowy day in Memphis, Tennessee. He was named after his grandfather, Nevin Proctor, and his uncle, John Smith – two strong, hard-working men who loved their families, a legacy John strived to carry on during his lifetime.
John attended Germantown High School in Memphis, Tennessee. He also attended Stark State College in Canton, Ohio, where he majored in business management and Remington College in Memphis, Tennessee, where he majored in culinary arts. He was an excellent cook, concocting many gourmet dishes for his family.
John accepted Christ as his Savior at an early age and joined Mt. Vernon Baptist Church - Westwood, under the leadership of the late Reverend James L. Netters. He often shared with friends and family how good God had been to him and how much mercy and grace God had shown him throughout his life.
John was the father of three beautiful children – his greatest pride and joy. John enjoyed his work and had recently started a new position at Helen of Troy in Olive Branch, Mississippi, as a certified, licensed forklift operator.
John had a loud, joyful and boisterous spirit, a strong love for his family, and was a very positive supporter and encourager of his loved ones. He had a big, beautiful smile that could light up a room and charm the wind into a song. John was truly a treasure and loved by many.
John departed this worldly life suddenly on March 2, 2023. He leaves to cherish his memory and to celebrate his life: his three children, Nija U. Kennedy, Kameron M. Proctor and Londyn C. Proctor; mom, Ruby C. Proctor; brothers, Bartholomew Christopher Cole (Nancy) and Robert S. Proctor, II; sisters, Priscilla Hill (Gary), Pauline Jenkins, Pamela Holloway (Darrell), Sterling Saulsberry (Morgan), and Beverly Proctor-Donald (Daryl); and a host of nieces, nephews and cousins who were like brothers and sisters to him, including Zacherie Thomas, Dennis Cole, Doral S. Littlejohn, Mark A. Stigger and Daryl “DJ” Donald, Jr. John was expecting his first granddaughter to be born in May of 2023. He also leaves to cherish his memory his fiancé, Veronica Joyner, and his loyal dog, Sam.
John was preceded in death by Robert S. Proctor, and his grandparents.
The family will receive friends Saturday, March 18, 2023 from 12:00noon- 12:30pm with a funeral service to follow at 12:30pm both will be held at Mt Vernon Baptist Church 620 Parkrose Rd, Memphis, TN 38109.
Internment will be in Memorial Park Southwoods , 5485 Hacks Cross Rd, Memphis, TN 38125
Shrita Clifford sent Ocean Devotion for Nivan J. Proctor - March 18, 2023
Beverly and family, It is with deepest sympathy that we send our heartfelt condolences to you all for the loss of your loved one.
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Robin Donald-Williams sent Sympathy Spray for Nivan J. Proctor - March 17, 2023
Praying for healing and strength during this difficult time. Robin, Sydnie and Gregory Williams And Mrs. Johnnie Donald
Beverly P Proctor sent Bountiful Red Rose Spray for Nivan J. Proctor - March 16, 2023
John's beautiful spirit touched our lives in so many ways that he will forever be in our hearts! For this, we are grateful. With never ending love! D., Bev and DJ
Celestial Love was sent for Nivan J. Proctor - March 14, 2023
Sending love & prayers for the family during this difficult time. My deepest sympathy goes out to my family. John brought so much JOY to my visit to Memphis. Thanks for the special memories.. RIP John, love you.
Prayers for strength and sanity at this difficult time. Lord cover the Mother, siblings, and children through this difficult time. May peace be with you all and the strength of the Lord keep you strong for each other.
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