Linda Joyce Ruff Obituary in Greensboro at Perry J. Brown Funeral Home

Obituary For Linda Joyce Ruff

Linda Joyce Ruff peacefully exchanged her earthly body for her eternal home on December 2, 2024,
surrounded in spirit by the love of her siblings who preceded her in passing.

Born on January 5, 1946, in Newberry, SC, Linda Joyce was the sixth of seven children born to
the late Calvin Ruff Sr. and Mildred Jones Ruff. She was lovingly reunited in eternity with her
siblings: Arnold Ruff, Janie C. Ruff, Barbara Jean Ruff Holland, Alice Benjamin, Carl A. Ruff,
and Calvin G. Ruff Jr.

Following the untimely loss of her mother, Linda and her sisters Janie and Barbara Jean were
raised in Greensboro, NC, by their Aunt Elizabeth and Uncle Zeb Coleman. She attended
Greensboro public schools and proudly graduated from Dudley High School in 1963. Linda later
pursued some coursework at A&T State University. She built her permanent home in
Greensboro, where she lived a life filled with faith, family, and friendships that enriched her
journey.

Linda found her professional calling with the United States Postal Service, where she dedicated
over 30 years of service. Known for her warm smile and professionalism, Linda approached her
work with a level of care and pride that left a lasting impression on colleagues and customers
alike. After retiring, Linda embraced her well-deserved freedom, spending her days enjoying her
favorite activities.

Faith was the cornerstone of Linda’s life. A devoted member of Trinity AME Zion Church, she
faithfully attended the 8:00 a.m. services and cherished the Sunrise service each Easter. This
tradition, shared with her brothers after their retirement, became a meaningful and enduring part
of her spiritual life.

Linda Joyce was a true matriarch and a source of love, strength, and support to all who knew
her. As the “baby sister,” she cherished her role in the Ruff family and cared for her siblings in
both sickness and health. To her nieces and nephews, she was a trusted confidante and wise
counselor. To her friends, she was a loyal companion, always ready to lend a helping hand or a
listening ear, no matter how exhausted she might have been.

Of all her roles, none brought Linda greater joy than being a mother to her beloved
son, Kenneth G. Ruff. She was his unwavering supporter, attending all his music performances
with pride. Whether braving the cold in stadium seats or basking in the warmth of a concert hall,
Linda’s love and pride for Kenneth were boundless.

Linda’s legacy also lives on through her remarkable dedication to the Blue and Gold Marching
Machine (BGMM) at North Carolina A&T State University. As a cherished “band mom,” she spent decades sewing uniforms, assembling flags, and ensuring students were well-fed and cared for. Whether assisting with last-minute fixes or cooking meals, Linda’s selflessness left an indelible mark on generations of students.

Linda Joyce Ruff leaves behind a legacy of faith, love, and generosity. She is survived by her
devoted son, Kenneth Graham Ruff; sisters-in-law Alma Bell Ruff, Hannah Delores Ruff,
and Valeria Fleming Ruff; and a host of cherished cousins, nieces, nephews, extended family,
and friends.
Linda’s life was a testament to grace, kindness, and unwavering devotion to those she loved.
She will forever be remembered as a phenomenal woman whose light shone brightly and whose
love will continue to inspire all who were fortunate enough to know her. May she rest in eternal
peace.

A Graveside Service will be held Sunday, December 8, 2024 1pm Lakeview Memorial

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Sending my condolences to Ken and family. Eric Rice

Dear Ruff family,
I am sending you prayers and my deepest condolences during this time. I thank you all for sharing "Auntie Linda" with so many of us. One of the memories that stands out most vividly is how Auntie Linda welcomed me with open arms and made me feel so comfortable during homecoming while I was visiting with my best friend, Capri. Her generosity, wittiness, and nurturing spirit will forever hold a special place in my heart.
With heartfelt sympathy, Alyssa Adams

Dear Dr. Ruff,
The holy spirit brought you to my mind today. Now, I understand why. Your mother's homegoing message found me. Immediately, I started to pray for you.
I appreciate how kind and thoughtful Ms. Ruff was to Angelica, Dominique, and myself. She inspired me to learn how to love "Brandy". Ms. Ruff demonstrated what really loving yourself looks like through her walk with Christ.
I thank God and you for sharing her with us. I will continue to pray for the holy spirit to comfort you.
May the memories of your phenomenal mother forever kindle your heart.
Warmly,
Brandy Saunders Angelica & Dominique Mickel

Dr. Ruff, the Class of 63, is praying for you and the family. We have all been where you are and are lifting you up in the name of Jesus! Just call if you need us: Joan E. Walden, Class President 336-681-2560. Peace be with you during your time of sorrow💜❤️

Dr Ruff our sincerest condolences to you and the Ruff family on the loss of your mother. Aretha Best and family (Kelli Best, A&T 2017)

Ms. Ruff was surely the "band Mom". . When Kenny and I were both in the band and I was in the flag squad, Ms. Ruff pitched in to make sure my hair was right. I was very grateful for that. Kenny I'm so sorry for your loss.

"Thats our babygirl" was Lolly's favorite thing to say whenever I made her proud. Being Babygirl is a title I never wore lightly. Lolly helped shape me into the strong and independent woman I am today. We shared many laughs and secrets. Lolly taught me how to make Mac and Cheese, and at Thanksgiving last year; she gave me her stamp of approval. I will forever love and cherish my first best friend. My Lolly. - Morgan "Babygirl"

My condolences to the family. I worked with Linda at the Guilford Finance Station. She was a very loving and dedicated person. Always willing to help train new clerks and very delightful to work with. Heaven gained an angel.
Dinah Marshall

My sincere condolences to Kenny and family. May God keep you close to Him.
Manuel Hyman, Greensboro

To the Ruff Family:
May God bless you, giving you peace, comfort, and wisdom during this difficult time.
Rosanell Sutton, Greensboro

Dr. Ruff, I am saddened to hear of the passing of her mother. Sending my sincere condolences to you. Sincerely, Harriet Frink Davis.

Dr Kenny, my sincere condolences to you and your family, I remember your mom when you came to work with me at Carolina Circle Mall. My deepest Sympathy, Donna Staley-Flack

Dr. Ruff and family; It is with sincere Condolences and prayers for peace during this time of bereavement. Your hearts will forever be at Half-Mast; but you will hold close to your hearts precious memories. Marilyn A. Smith 78 BGMM & Kayla Perry-Smith BGMM 2011

Dr. Ruff and family; It is with sincere condolences and prayers for peace during your time of bereavement. Your heart will forever be at half-mast. But precious memories you will hold close to heart. 💙💛

Dr. Ruff, I'm so very sorry to hear of the passing of your mom. She was a sweet lady, always met me with a smile. I enjoyed her at the games. I pray that God blesses you with peace and comfort, knowing you were a wonderful son to her and she was so very proud of you. Our prayers are with you and your family, love Lisa Bradley (BGMM mom) and my mom Arlene Hedgspeth.

Our staff will continue to keep your family in our prayers. We thank you for allowing us to serve your family.

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