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Patrick Standifer

07/07/1959 - 07/12/2020

Obituary For Patrick Standifer

Patrick Standifer, 61, of New Bern died Sunday July 12, 2020 at his residence.

His service is 10:00 AM Saturday at St. Paul MBA Cemetery 340 Perry Town Loop Rd., New Bern. Viewing is Saturday from 9:00 AM-10:00 AM prior to the service at the cemetery.

His is survived by his wife, Natalie Standifer of the home; one son, Patrick N. Standifer (Journia) of Clayton, NC; one daughter, Elizabeth S. Crews (Tommy) of Yanceyville, NC; three grandchildren; his mother, Dorothy Standifer of Fayetteville, NC; one sister, Phyllis Reaves of Fayetteville, NC.

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Natalie and family, Sorry to hear the passing of Patrick. I know he will be missed by so many of his friends. May the love of God surround each of you during your time of loss and sorrow. You are in my thoughts and prayers. love, Sondra Mitchell

Mrs. Standifer, Pat, and Elizabeth,

Please know that I am thinking of and praying for you during this time of loss and sorrow. May the memories of Mr. Standifer sustain you, and may you find comfort in our Lord. Terry Fuhrman

I used to work at SECU when he was our officer there. Coming home to visit years later I found out that him and my dad were good friends, hanging out at the park on a daily. When my dad called me last Sunday my heart dropped. I was so sorry to hear this news. He was such a great person. My condolences to you and your family. With Love, Sara Rivera

Hi Natalie, I was so sorry to hear of your loss. I will truly miss seeing and talking to Patrick at Union Point Park, my condolences to you and your family. Rest on my Friend. Juanita Franks

My condolence to the Standifer family Patrick and I Graduation from the high school class of 1977 and we came up in the same area.he will be greatly miss by many. Keeping Family in prayer. Stella Avery Burns.

Natalie Just want to let you and your family know that my prayers are with you. Patrick will truly be missed. Paulette Dickens (Friend from the park). Paulette Dickens

Nat, Pat, and Elizabeth. May the Lord God continue to cuddle you in his Bosom. Patrick will be greatly missed, he was his own person and could hold ya feet to the fire. I loved him too. Continue to look to the Hills, which comets your strength. Love you guys, Elijah & Paula.

Natalie Our prayers are with you and the family. The Staten Fisher family

Our condolences to the Standifer family.Sister Phyllis and Mama Dorothy, we are sorry for your loss.You are in our thoughts and prayers.We love you. Wayne and Clara Dunn

Patrick was a delightful classmate! We will hold the memory of him close. Grace, and peace! Ms Angela L Vann, Cape Fear High School Class of 1977 Fayetteville, NC

My condolences in the passing of your loved one. I am praying for your family's comfort during this difficult time. Darlene Badger

Praying for your strength, peace, and comfort during this time of sudden loss.

--Rev. Dr. Gwendolyn Parmley-McCloud & The Trinity Chapel AME Zion Church Family, New Bern, NC

Dearest Natalie and family. I don't began to know how you are feeling but can only imagine The loss to be immeasurable. I usually find solace in knowing to be absent from the body is to be present with the lord and hope our love one shared a like mindset. Trusting you will find the comfort you need from your relationships with the Father. I'm reminded of a song by Patti LaBelle called "Love never dies" as you reflect on the Love left behind. Hopefully, you can Google & listen in your quiet times. Much Love, Peace & Blessings from Joseph & Yolonda Credle; Joliet, Illinois.

Know that you and your family are in my prayers and thought Sandy...sincere condolences on your loss. Ms. Mary Wynn and Family

Natalie I am so sorry to hear of your husband's passing !!!! May God grant you and your family and fiends the strength to deal with this most terrible of times !!! Know that YOU ALL are in my Thoughts and Prayers !!!! LOVE YOU ALL !!!! Henry Dancy / Pinetops NC

Natalie, Condolences to you. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Gina Quinn Coleman

Natalie I am so sorry to hear the loss of your husband. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. Please accept our condolences.

Natalie and family you have our deepest sympathy. Our prayers will continue to be with you in the days and months to come. He will be missed. Chandler & Denise Powell

Natalie, I am so sorry for your loss. Weeping may endure for the night but joy cometh in the morning. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Erlinda Leggett

Patrick you will be missed I will always remember the day's we had at the courthouse you will forever be remembered as my friend thanks for all the advice you gave me Rest In Peace May god comfort the family K . Robinson

I'm so sorry for your loss...R. Keith Whitfield Sr.

Met Patrick while working at the State Employees' Credit Union back in 2000. He was always happy and joking! We all smiled when he walked in the HUB to look after the safety of us all! We all looked at him as our Father! He would talk to us, listen to us, give his Fatherly advice if needed! He was loved by so many and will be miss greatly! Rest In Peace my dear friend! Praying for his wonderful family! Wendy & Dylan

Natalie sending love and prayers. Vicky Davis

I worked with Patrick and Natalie at the Craven County Sheriff's Office. Sorry to hear of your Loss Natalie, My Prayers and Thoughts Go out for You and Family and all of Your Friends. Another Good Man gone way to Soon. George Shaver

Natalie, My condolences. May God contine to keep you in his care and provide comfort to you and your family. Praying for you. Tammie Alston-Finch

Natalie my heart breaks for you and your family. Patrick always made me smile. Praying strength for you and your family in the coming days. Love you all Jerry and Debbie Monette

Natalie, I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Patrick. Praying for you and your family. May God give you some comfort at this time. Virginia Smith-Jones

Prayers and condolences to family! I enjoyed working wIth Patrick! May God comfort this family during this time of bereavement. Dave Arthur

Natalie my prayers are with you and your family. May the God of peace and joy sustain you and your family. Much love!

Natalie, Our prayers are with you and your family and may the peace of the Lord be with you all.

Rick Stewart & Carolyn Sampson

Natalie, just want you to know that our prayers and thoughts are with you all during this trying time. Johnnie and Brenda Dove

Natalie you are in our prayers Richard and Jackie Roberts

Nat you and your kids are deeply in our thoughts and prayers. Sincerely Frankie and Dale Gibbs and Family.

May God comfort the family at this hour of need jGQKA

Our love, thoughts, and prayers are with you and the family. We will continue to pray that God gives you strength; he will never leave you. Starlin and Pamela Beatty

I will always remember Patrick as a beloved friend and co-worker. You have my deepest sympathy. Praying for you and your family. Yolanda Hill

Our staff will continue to keep your family in our prayers. We thank you for allowing us to serve your family.

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