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Obituary For Mrs. Vivian O. Gordon
“I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith: Henceforth there is a laid up for me a crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous judge, shall give me at that day: and not to me only, but unto all them also that love is appearing.” 2 Timothy 4: 7-8
Vivian O. Gordon was born on December 18, 1953, in Hampton County, South Carolina, to the late Catherine Orr.
She sought God’s direction at an early age, and joined Ebenezer Holy Church.
Vivian attended the public schools of Hampton County and was a graduate of the class of 1971 at Estill High School. After graduation, she furthered her education at South Carolina State University, where she received a bachelor’s degree in accounting.
She was employed with the State of South Carolina as a Financial Consultant.
During her leisure time, she enjoyed spending time with family and friends.
Her departure on Tuesday morning, February 18, 2025, has left a tremendous void in the lives of her family: Loving and devoted husband: Jerry James Gordon, of the home; (6) Step – Children: Timothy Gordon, Jerry Gordon, Jr.(Billie), Eric Gordon (Annie), Erica Gordon, Mergeron Jones, and June Jones; (10) Grandchildren; (3) Brothers: Clayton Colvin Sr.; Rev. Glenn Orr (Deborah), and Benjamin Orr (Vera); (1) Sister: Dr. Lillie Rose (David) Walker; (2) Sisters – In – Law: Annette Gordon and Pamela Gordon; (3) Brothers – In – Law: John Gordon (Charlotte), Edward Gordon (Daisy), and Carol Gordon; (3) Devoted Nephews: Clayton Clovin, Jr., Justin Colvin, and Larnell White. A host of loving nieces, nephews, cousins, and sympathizing friends.
My Last Request
Please don’t say that I gave up; I just gave in. Don’t say I lost the battle, for it was God’s war to lose or win. Please don’t say how good I was, but that I did my best. Just say, I tried to do what's right, to give the most I could, not less. I want no more than I deserve, no extras, just my due.
“A SERVICE ABOVE SELF”
Please remember to keep the Gordon family lifted in prayer.
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Chandra Williams sent Gracious Lavender Basket for Mrs. Vivian O. Gordon - February 22, 2025
Lynne F Amick sent Radiant Foliage Planter for Mrs. Vivian O. Gordon - February 22, 2025
Ishirel Jamison sent Blessings Bouquet for Mrs. Vivian O. Gordon - February 22, 2025
Gary Gresham sent Eternal Light Standing Spray for Mrs. Vivian O. Gordon - February 21, 2025
Joyce Orr sent Beautiful Dreams for Mrs. Vivian O. Gordon - February 20, 2025
Barbara Bond sent Beautiful Dreams for Mrs. Vivian O. Gordon - February 19, 2025
My most sincere and deepest condolences to Vivian's family. I met her almost 5 years ago and she and bonded instantly. We talked/ texted weekly. We called each other sister. She was the sister I've always wanted. I'm so happy that I was able to spend a minutes with her the day before she passed. My heart is broken. Prayers for the family. We loved her, but God loves her best. RIP sweet sister.
God Bless your soul I am going to miss talking to you and sending you prayers every day and on the end of our conversation I would say I love you Vivian and you will always say I love you too Minnie Please say hello to Tommy in heaven for me ❤️🙏🏾
Erica, I will be praying for your and your family during this difficult time.
Sending my deepest condolences to the Orr/Gordon family and any others affected in Viv's transition. I Pray that God appeases your sorrow and brings you solace as you grieve. Viv, I will cherish our long hugs, talks, and always "I love you" deeply in my heart. Your words, "if I can't help you, I won't hurt you" will always register on my lips. You, my dear, will truly be missed. I love you.
Ishirel
Condolences to Steve Orr and family
Sending healing prayers and comforting hugs to the family. May God give all of you strength during this difficult time.Hold onto the beautiful memories.
My deepest condolences to the Orr family. Viv, my friend and classmate of 71,I'll never forget your affectionate smile. 🙏 RIP
We will miss our beautiful cousin. She always made us laugh, and cared so deeply for her family. In her last days, she made no mention of her own troubles but instead asked if there was anything she could do to help us as our mother grew ill. A special person, indeed. Rest peacefully, Viv.
My deepest condolences to the Orr and Gordon family. May the memories of your loved one bring you comfort and peace. I am praying for the family.
My heart is so heavy right now. Viv, aka "Tight" or "Miss Tighty Ighty" was my college roommate for three (3) years at South Carolina State. What was mine was hers and what was hers was mine. She was a part of my family and I was a part of hers. Rarely does friendship span decades as ours did. No, we didn't talk often but when we did, we laughed and talked for hours and hours. As we ended our conversation, we never failed to say " I love you". We were both diagnosed with cancer, and often talked about how the diagnosis affected our lives; all while bringing us closer to the Lord. Viv loved Jerry, his family, her family, her friends, and the Lord. While I'm sad my dear friend is physically away from us all, I know she is in a much better place. I know that we will see each other again, for the Scripture declares .."to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord"! I will miss you TIghty Ighty. I love you.
We the Pastor and Members of the Community Missionary Baptist Church, Norman, OK do acknowledge the passing of Sister Vivian O. Gordon – Sister-in-Law to our Brother John Gordon. Please know that our hearts are with you as you gather to bid a Christian good-bye to Sister Vivian. Nevertheless, we know that the foundation of God standeth sure, having this seal; The Lord knoweth them that are His. In Christ Jesus our Lord, Pastor Michael Ford
We were deeply saddened to hear about the passing of Vivian. She was a wonderful person whose warmth and kindness touched everyone who knew her. We hope you find comfort in the beautiful memories you shared, in the love and support of family and friends during this difficult time. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Sincerely, Johnny Mikell & Family
Please keep the family in your thoughts and prayers during this difficult season.
Mrs. Vivian was a sweet person and a wonderful person to know. She had such a giving spirit. Every time you went to her and Jerry's house, she was always giving you something, food, candy, something to drink or just whatever she had. She will be truly missed, and it was a pleasure to have had the opportunity to meet a fine person as Mrs. Vivian. You have fought a good fight, you have finished the race, you have kept the faith and now it is time for you to receive your crown. Continue to Rest in Paradise!!!
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