Shalaunda "Lala" Nakaia Adkins

Obituary For Shalaunda "Lala" Nakaia Adkins

In loving memory, we celebrate the life of Shalaunda Nakaia Adkins, affectionately known to many as "Lala," who left us on February 27, 2025, just shy of her 50th birthday. Born to the union of Vickie Adkins and Nelson Kennedy, on March 7, 1975, in Youngstown, Ohio, Shalaunda was a vibrant spirit whose light touched everyone she encountered.

A graduate of The Rayen School and a proud follower of her passion for fashion, Shalaunda was a true trendsetter, pursing a degree at Youngstown State University for Interior Designing.

Always dressed to impress, her zest for life was matched by her love for the Dallas Cowboys and her strong spirit as a first female enforcer of the Joker’s MC, known as "Xclusive Monroe." Shalaunda's presence was magnetic; her laughter infectious, and her ability to demand respect was unparalleled.

Those who knew her felt her strength and were captivated by her love—a unique blend of discipline and warmth that made her a compassionate leader in all facets of her life, including her faithful presence at Christ Centered Church.

A beloved member of the community, Shalaunda dedicated her professional life to supporting individuals with developmental disabilities through her work at Invision. She approached her role with fierce dedication and a heart full of compassion, reflecting her strength as a person and her unwavering commitment to uplift those around her.

However, Shalaunda was more than her career; she was a devoted mother, nurturing her children—Jujuan Adkins-Pinkard, Sr., Jontae Rivere, Reginald Jones, Jr., Jalazia Green, and Annjalasha Martinez —with love and tenacity.

Lala remains deeply cherished and embedded in the hearts of her father, Nelson Kennedy, brother Durwin L. Adkins, and sister Latisha Alexander.

Lala was a beloved "Gaga" to her eleven grandchildren, showering them with affection and wisdom, creating memories that will forever echo in their hearts. Her legacy will remain vibrant among a score of family and friends.

As Lala crossed the celestial shores into eternity, she was reunited with the ancestors who preceded her including her beloved mother Vickie Adkins and sister Keishma Adkins.

As we remember Shalaunda—a daughter, sister, mother, grandmother, friend, and fierce advocate for love—we cherish the legacy of strength and compassion she leaves behind. Her departure leaves a space that will forever be filled with the memories we created together, and her spirit will continue to guide us.

The community will gather to honor Lala’s incredible journey with a “Fifty Shades of Blue” Celebration of Life to be held on her 50th Birthday. Friends and family are invited to join the Adkins family on Friday, March 7, from 3 PM to 7 PM, at Club 221, located at 166 Mahoning Ave. In the spirit of Shalaunda’s vibrant personality and favorite color of hues of blue, all attendees are encouraged to “dress to impress” in the theme color of blue.

The family of Shalaunda “Lala” Nakaia Adkins entrusted the Ministry of Comfort & Care, along with Transitional After-Care Arrangements, to J. E. Washington Funeral Services, located at 2234 Glenwood Ave, Youngstown, OH. For any inquiries, please call 330-782-8500