Carrillo Yvonne Pilson Collins, was lovingly called “Mother” by her children, and was endearingly known as “Sister” and “T- Red” by others. Born in Martinsville, VA, her life’s journey ended in her home in Norfolk, VA. She was a loving daughter, sister, mother, and friend to those who knew her. At an early age, Mother gave her life to Christ at Mt. Olive East Christian Church and in recent years she faithfully attended FavorNation Church in Chesapeake, VA. Our mother boldly acknowledged the goodness of God in her life and was thankful for His hand upon her especially during her health challenges. Mother’s favorite saying was “I’m sending them up” meaning she was going to earnestly pray for you because she knew about the power of prayer.
After attending Carver High School, she met and married James Collins. To that union, their first child, Tony, was born in Martinsville. Shortly afterwards, James joined the Army and moved his family to Fort Hood, TX. A few years later, the couple was blessed with two more children, Cirillo “Leon” and Veronica “VC”. In 1994, Mother relocated to Norfolk, VA.
There are many cherished memories of our mother that are unforgettable. Mother once owned, what would be today called a “Juke Joint” on Barton Street. She enjoyed a good time but most of all she was happy when she saw that others were having a good time as well. Mother was known for looking out for others … she found joy in helping people. Mother loved sending birthday cards with personalized handwritten notes, which we don’t see happening much today. At FavorNation Church, she was particularly drawn to the GEM (God Empowers Me) senior group where she enjoyed their fellowship and outings. Mother was an honorary member of the Girlfriends of MAVAHI ’71 club and attended their annual gatherings in Martinsville. She loved to fellowship with ole friends and enjoy the good times.
Mother was preceded in death by her parents, Evelyn France and Curtis Pilson, Sr., her brother Curtis “June” Pilson, Jr., two sisters: Drucilla Penn and Jacqueline Gravely; son Tony Collins; grandchild, Abigail "Yvonne" Collins; and son-in-law Wallace Wilkins. Left to cherish her memories are her son: Cirillo “Leon” (Sandra) Collins of San Antonio, TX; and daughter, Veronica “VC” Wilkins of Virginia Beach, VA. One sister Robin (Michael) Brown, and bonus mother Ruby Pilson of Bassett; three grandchildren, all from San Antonio, TX: Xavier (fiancé Eliza) Castillo, Mariah (Carl) Martinez, and Cirillo Collins, II; four great-grandchildren, many relatives and loved ones.
We are grateful for Bernetha “Bunny” Hairston, mother’s kind, and compassionate caretaker and friend. Upon meeting our mother, Bunny promised, “Ms. Collins, I will never leave you” and she kept her promise. Thank you, Bunny, for staying the course until the end … you’ve been our rock. And thank you to all who touched our mother’s life and who reached out to us during this difficult time in our life’s journey. There are too many to name (but you know who you are) and too few words to show our gratitude. The power of everyone’s love and prayers have strengthened us. We know our loss is heaven’s gain.
A visitation services will be held on Monday, February 27, 2023, at 11:30 a.m. until the time of the funeral service at 12 p.m. at Mt. Olive East Christian Church (DOC), 3611 Spencer Preston Rd., Martinsville, VA with Pastor E. Leroy "Peter" Valentine, Eulogist. Burial will follow at Carver Memorial Gardens, 1310 Carver Rd., Martinsville. A public viewing will be held on Sunday, February 26, 2023, at Hairston Funeral Home, 301 Fayette St., Martinsville between the hours of 2 p.m. until 5 p.m.
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Arrangements are entrusted to Hairston Funeral Home.
Takita Darnise Small sent Simply Elegant Spathiphyllum for Carrillo Yvonne "Sister" Pilson Collins - February 24, 2023
VC & family,so sorry your.Carrillo was always so kind to us. We are keeping you all in our prayers as you mourn your loss. Love, your cousins the Small's. Darnise, Dauphine, Tanya, Gay & Tom
My Deepest Sympathy to the Pilson and Collins family. May God comfort your hearts during this time..🙏💕🕊
Ms. Evonne was like a second mother to me. I will truly miss her. I have so many memories of Ms. Evonne. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Love, Michelle Draper
Ms. Evonne was like a second mother to me. I will truly miss you. I have so many memories of Ms. Evonne. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Veronica & Leon , remember your mother will be a ray of sunshine to many and will be missed without measure, nothing will ever replace the space in your hearts, she occupied. Keep her memory & times there. And know, she will always be there to comfort and give you peace in your time of need along with the Love of God. Peace to the family and friends of Carrillo Yvonne 'aka'Sister Pilson Collins, your sista friend, Gail.🙏🏾
To the Pilson and Collins family, praying God will give you strength and comfort , you have our sympathy Rogers and Peggy Wade
Mama Vonn is what she answered to from me when I always spoke with her. She has always listened to me gave me advice and got on me and my feelings about doing the right things and never have judged me but she always knew the right way to let you know that I'm making sure that I was ok and I'll be fine. Just listen to God he want tell you anything wrong. I love you what she always says to me. I love you Mama Evonn. Sleep in Peace and stay flying around.I love all of the memories that you ❤ have given me.
To the Pilson and Collins family you have our deepest sympathy. Peter and Willie Mae Harris
To the Pilson and Collins family you have our deepest sympathy. Peter and Willie Mae Harris
Sorry for your loss I'm miss my friend 😢
Sorry of your loss my friend 😢
We are so sorry for your loss. The members of our LIFE Society will keep your family in our thoughts and prayers. We wish you comfort and peace during this difficult time.
Sincerely, The LIFE Society
My Condolences Lawrence Swanson Sr.
God bless 🙌🙏and keep my Friend Jesus is!
"Sister" that's how "You" were affectionately called by "Family and Friends".Ohhhh! how I'm already missing our long hours of conversations. You are My: Cousin/Sister/Best Friend ❤️ someone that I could always call anytime if having a low or good day, always had a listening ear. Didn't know a weeks ago would be our last conversation 😭 Had the longest hair, I've ever seen 😊 Matter of fact has been measured to 3 feet. That's one of my memory pictures among so many others! V.C.,Leon,Sandra,Mariah, Cirillo, Xavier,Robin,Ms.Ruby,Great/Grands, Remaining of Family and Friends. You'll have My Utmost Condolences,Love❤️Prayers 🙏 Love and Will Miss 💔 You "Sister". Your Favorite Cousin/Sister (Richetta A."Richy" Hairston/Bassett Va)
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