Back to Obituaries Close Window Ford & Joseph Funeral Home | Opelousas, LA

Joseph Aljay Pickens

05/11/1936 - 08/09/2020

Obituary For Joseph Aljay Pickens

OPELOUSAS - Visitation services will be held from 7:00 a.m. to 8:00 a.m. on Friday, August 14, 2020 at Ford and Joseph Funeral Home in Opelousas, LA for Mr. Joseph Pickens, 84, who entered eternal rest on Sunday, August 9, 2020 at Opelousas General Health System. Graveside service and interment will follow at the Louisiana National Cemetery in Zachary, LA.

Rev. Frank L. Ford, Pastor of Community Chapel Church of God In Christ, will be officiating the funeral service. Mr. Pickens was a member of Greater Shiloh Baptist Church where he served under the leadership of Pastor Robert Dupre. He served as a Deacon at his church.

Mr. Pickens’ memories are being cherished by: his wife, Mary Richardson Pickens of Opelousas, LA; three sons, Mark Irving and Michael K. Irving (Tammie), both of Opelousas, LA and Jude Irving (Tiffany) of Houston, TX; five daughters, Debra Jackson (Henry) of Dallas, TX, Donna White Lewis, Mona Irving and Monette Irving Ford (Floyd), all of Opelousas, LA and Sonja Pickens of Vallejo, CA; three brothers, Anthony Pickney and Paul Pickney, both of Opelousas, LA and Arthur Lewis (Mary) of Houston, TX; three sisters, Ruby Petty and Esther Jones, both of Opelousas, LA and Nell Johnson of Houston, TX; and a host of grandchildren, nieces, nephews, relatives and friends.

He is preceded in death by: his parents, Elijah and Ruby Leblanc Pickney; three sons, Darryl Pickens, Christopher Lazard and Brian Irving; four brothers, Henry Charles Lewis, Earl Lewis, Jr., Larry Lewis and Ferdinand Lewis; and one sister, Mildred Pickney Gibbs. ** Please be advised we will adhere to the safety measures and precautions provided by the state of Louisiana due to COVID-19. Masks are required for those who will be in attendance. ** Words of condolences may be expressed at www.fordandjosephfh.com

Ford and Joseph Funeral Home, 907 N. Market Street, Opelousas, LA 70570, (337) 942-6750, is in charge of arrangements.


Condolences & Tributes

Add A Condolence

Daddy, I miss you so much! I love you. I'm sorry if I disappointed you but I'm so thankful and blessed for the years of understanding and love. My only regret is not always feeling that way- I guess I had some maturing to do. I know God has the final say so, and I know every birth has a death- physically. I'll always love you. No physical object or thing can represent that. I'm your child, I know it. You wouldn't think you ever existed. Priority, but not a coin given. All was taken,but you are worth so much more than that. Mark made me laugh, so hard! He remembered you were the reason they had different cereals to choose for breakfast, lol! He went wayyy back! I value you. I love you. Thank you for Mr. West. I smile everytime he says he loves me and there's nothing I can do about it. Thank you daddy, I'm trying to continue to make you proud. Rest

It seems so cruel to lose one so dear. Time may dull the pain, but we will never forget Mr. Pickens. Please accept my condolences.

Please accept the condolences from Lillie Gary, Rev. Arthur & Mary Lewis's Sister .

Sorry for your lossLove Lois H.HandyK84E

Aunt Mary Condolences to you and all my Cousin. UNCLE ALJAY MAY YOUR SOUL REST IN PEACE. Love You, Your Nephew Harry.

the Clays

RIP sir. I admired the fact that you took in my cousins as your own.

The Pickens Family. My heart is with you in your time of sorrow. My Deepest sympathy and prayers for the family.

Rest on Uncle Aljay, to my aunt Pucky and my cousins he will be truly missed. But it was his time for no more suffering and no more pain, love y'all so much.

Aunt Mary,sending condolences to you and the family.May God comfort you all in your time of need. You all are in our prayers. The Franklin & Hudson Family of California. Melba,Georgia,Ronald,Jonathan & Dana

RIHP Cousin

Condolence to the Pickens family,my prayers for you all.

I'm truly going to miss you, Mr. AJ

Please know prayers are with you and family.your loss is our loss.Aijay was a respected neighbor and friend.

Our staff will continue to keep your family in our prayers. We thank you for allowing us to serve your family.

Ford & Joseph Funeral Home | Opelousas, LA

Best Sellers

Plant Trees
Plant Trees

$50.00

Beautiful Dreams
Beautiful Dreams

$84.95

Gracious Lavender Basket
Gracious Lavender Basket

$134.95

Serene Lily Basket
Serene Lily Basket

$104.95

Pink Tribute Spray
Pink Tribute Spray

$149.95

Sweet Moments
Sweet Moments

$74.95

Mixed Spray
Mixed Spray

$149.95

Red and White Handled Basket
Red and White Handled Basket

$84.95

Peace & Serenity Dishgarden
Peace & Serenity Dishgarden

$79.95

Traditional Floor Basket
Traditional Floor Basket

$79.95

Ocean Devotion
Ocean Devotion

$79.95

The Peace Lily
The Peace Lily

$94.95

Living Spirit Dishgarden
Living Spirit Dishgarden

$79.95

Red and White Floor Basket
Red and White Floor Basket

$89.95

Mixed flowers in a handled basket
Mixed flowers in a handled basket

$89.95

The Loving Light Dishgarden
The Loving Light Dishgarden

$79.95

Ocean Breeze Spray
Ocean Breeze Spray

$184.95

Precious Heart Bouquet
Precious Heart Bouquet

$84.95

Enduring Spirit Pothos Basket
Enduring Spirit Pothos Basket

$74.95

Sympathy Spray
Sympathy Spray

$159.95

Radiant Foliage Planter
Radiant Foliage Planter

$89.95

Heartfelt Memories
Heartfelt Memories

$94.95

Stately Croton
Stately Croton

$79.95

Medium Dish Garden
Medium Dish Garden

$99.95

Forever in Our Hearts Casket Adornment
Forever in Our Hearts Casket Adornment

$79.95

Love's Journey
Love's Journey

$84.95

Garden of Memories
Garden of Memories

$134.95

Sweet Tranquility Basket
Sweet Tranquility Basket

$89.95

Simply Elegant Spathiphyllum
Simply Elegant Spathiphyllum

$84.95

Tender Tribute
Tender Tribute

$129.95

Deeply Adored
Deeply Adored

$79.95

Your Light Shines
Your Light Shines

$119.95

Joyful Memory
Joyful Memory

$119.95

Heavenly Grace Spray
Heavenly Grace Spray

$189.95

Bright and Beautiful Spray
Bright and Beautiful Spray

$184.95

America the Beautiful
America the Beautiful

$74.95

Small Garden Dish
Small Garden Dish

$74.95

Loving Lilies and Roses Bouquet
Loving Lilies and Roses Bouquet

$169.95

Rainbow Reflections Basket
Rainbow Reflections Basket

$104.95

Splendid Memories Bouquet
Splendid Memories Bouquet

$79.95

Golden Days Basket
Golden Days Basket

$79.95

Serene Retreat
Serene Retreat

$94.95

Heavenly Heights Bouquet
Heavenly Heights Bouquet

$79.95

Heavenly & Harmony
Heavenly & Harmony

$84.95

Large Mixed Plant Dish Garden
Large Mixed Plant Dish Garden

$114.95

Dreams From the Heart Bouquet
Dreams From the Heart Bouquet

$104.95

Vivid Recollections
Vivid Recollections

$94.95

Sunny Memories
Sunny Memories

$139.95

Emerald Garden Basket
Emerald Garden Basket

$84.95

Sacred Duty Spray
Sacred Duty Spray

$184.95

French Garden
French Garden

$79.95

Celestial Love
Celestial Love

$84.95

Peace Lily
Peace Lily

$84.95

Blossoms in Vogue
Blossoms in Vogue

$84.95

Large Basket Garden
Large Basket Garden

$104.95

Lily and Rose Tribute Spray
Lily and Rose Tribute Spray

$264.95

The New Sunrise Bouquet
The New Sunrise Bouquet

$79.95

Blessings Bouquet
Blessings Bouquet

$84.95

Rays of Light Spray
Rays of Light Spray

$189.95

Eternal Peace Basket
Eternal Peace Basket

$79.95

Rose Remembrance
Rose Remembrance

$194.95

Fall Fantasia
Fall Fantasia

$84.95

Sacred Garden Spray
Sacred Garden Spray

$239.95