Mr. Kevin Lamar Barner Obituary in South Hill at Feggins Funeral Home

Obituary For Mr. Kevin Lamar Barner

VIEWING: Tuesday, January 9, 2024 Time: 12:30 PM - 5:00 PM

SERVICE: Wednesday, January 10, 2024 Time: 12:00 Noon The Bishop George H. Studivant Worship & Conference Center, 2504 Rocky Branch Road, LaCrosse, VA 23950 Rev. Sharon Baskerville, Officiating

INTERMENT: Lambert's Chapel RZUA Church Cemetery, 87 Snowbird Road, South Hill, VA 23970

I’ve had some good days; I’ve had some hills to climb

I’ve had some weary days and some sleepless nights;

But when I look around and I think things over,

All of my good days out weigh my bad days;

I won’t complain...

KEVIN LAMAR BARNER, affectionately known as “Bonzino” and “Barner” was born December 7, 1979 at Community Memorial Hospital to Connie J. Barner and the late William H. Barner. Kevin departed this life suddenly, at the age of 44, on January 2, 2024 at VCU-Community Memorial Hospital, South Hill, VA.

At an early age Kevin was baptized and joined Union Hill RZUA Church, Baskerville, VA. He also sung with the Jerusalem Baptist Church Children’s choir in his early years. Kevin loved to sing. When he attended church and the opportunity presented itself, he would sing his favorite song, “I Won’t Complain”. He received his early education in the Mecklenburg County School System and graduated from Park View Senior High in 1998. Upon graduation, Kevin entered the U.S. Army in 1999 where he served for a brief period. He held various jobs throughout his life.

Kevin loved everybody. He never considered anyone a stranger and was a friend to all who knew him. He was well-known in South Hill and everybody was his “cuz”. The family would often refer to Kevin as the “Town Gazette” because if you wanted to know something, you could just ask him as he knew everybody and everything. Kevin was a self-made business man; he loved detailing cars and making music CDs, and he was very good at both. He loved dancing and watching football. He was an avid Washington Commanders fan. Kevin also loved a phone, whether he was playing games or just randomly calling people.

He was preceded in death by his maternal grandparents, Howard and Hazel Joyner and his paternal grandparents, Tommie and Manervia Barner.

Kevin leaves to cherish his memories: his loving mother and confidant, Connie J. Barner of South Hill, VA; beloved sister, Denise L. Barner of Washington, DC; four aunts, Marie B. Wills of Washington, DC; Ann Barner of Richmond, VA; Ivy Joyner of Chesterfield, VA and Myra (Gerard) Pugh of Emporia, VA; two great aunts, Mae Dell (Joseph) Parks of Morristown, NJ and Shirley Roberts of Dover, NJ; two devoted cousins, Genardra Pugh of Gaithersburg, MD and Gerail Pugh of Emporia, VA; God-brother, Demetrius Skipwith; devoted friends, Bracey Jackson, Michael Bugg, Cedric “Big Ced” Feggins, Crystal Wynn, Cheryl Craddock, and Marshall Walker, and a host of other relatives and friends.

Forget unkind words I have spoken

Remember some good I have done

Forget that I ever had heartache

And remember I’ve had loads of fun

-Lyman Hancock

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EM Irby sent Peace & Serenity Dishgarden for Mr. Kevin Lamar Barner - January 07, 2024

Mrs. Connie and Denise,
Our condolences to you both. Keeping you in prayer and sending our love. May God's grace provide you peace as you cherish your memories. Your Sisters - Raquel,Juana and Estee

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Wow , I've talked to you a couple times in the past, either on the phone or through Facebook....ive been really sick myself , just getting myself together, and you came across my mind, never thought I would be seeing RIP by your name , you was a good dude Kevin and you will be missed my friend.

I work at one of the stores in South Hill and often saw Kevin come in. He was always so personable and such a joy to talk to. He and I often discussed our favorite team, Washington. I remain saddened at learning that he had passed. He will be missed. My sincerest condolences to his family and other loved ones.

My deepest condolences and prayers to the entire family. Wishing you comfort and peace during your time of loss. LaQueen Russell & Family Florida/Senegal

My condolences to Mrs Barner and her daughter Denise I'm so so for the lost of Kevin I'm going to miss him and the laughter he brought to many many God continue to bless all of you and keep you all in prayers Love Libby Richardson and Family He will be missed

To the Joyner/ Barner Families: We feel your pain. Our hearts were broken when we received the news of Kevin's passing. Our prayers and thoughts are with all of you today. Prayers going up for strength, comfort and peace. Kevin soul is at rest. Fly high Kevin💔🙏🏾akd23

To:The Barner Family, thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. May God grant you the love and peace that He gives, His grace and mercy is sufficent to meet every need that we go through in life and His precious love is always present, To God be the glory The Gregory and Young family

My condolences to the family. Kevin was a classmate of mine that made him my brother. We always called each other family. He will be missed...love you always... Yolanda Ayres and family

This is a hard one but GOD knows best. I'm sending my condolences to the family, my family

The Barner/Joyner family, my heart goes out to you for the loss of your dear son. I hope your happy memories will help you through this difficult time. Praying for comfort in the coming days Connie . Barbara Brown Finley & family

Damn hommie my condolences to the rest of the family

To Connie, Denise and family you have my deepest sympathy 🙏 Gladys Day

So sorry of the loss of your love one.Times like this can feel so overwhelming.Praying God will be with you to comfort you and surround you with His love.-Sandra(Sturdivant)Hardy and Family

My thoughts and prayers go out to the family and friends during this difficult time no parent should have to bury their child i have known Kevin for a couple years he was the life of the party weather he was dancing, telling jokes or a story he always kept me laughing he got on my nerves sometimes but he knew it(🤣) and would tell me i know im getting on your last nerve but im still you're friend u love me and he was absolutely right... rest easy my friend until my day comes and we meet again keep dancing and smiling...i love u... you will be missed and never forgotten 🥰🥲😭💔🙏🏽

My condolences to Connie, Denise and family. Praying 🙏

Condolences below: Elnora Walker

So sorry for your loss. I last saw Kevin in Food Lion with a loving smile. He said he was cooking for his Mother. He was always pleasant and such a beautiful smile. My prayers and condolences to Connie and the family.

I taught Kevin many years ago. He was always so mannerable and smiling when he saw me. He would always give me a hug before we parted. My condolences to the entire family. Beverly T. Scott