Willie Alexander May, Jr., a larger-than-life figure, beloved husband and father, was born on November 23, 1983, to Willie A. May Sr. and Wanda T. May of Chesterfield, VA. He passed away on January 7, 2025, at the age of 41. Willie lived life to the fullest, leaving behind a legacy of love, laughter, and cherished memories. He was preceded in death by his grandparents Henry and Edith May and his great-grandmother Dorothy V. Turner and Julia B. Hampton.

Willie is survived by his loving parents, Willie A. May Sr. and Wanda T. May; his devoted wife, Natascha R. May; his beloved son, Cameron A. May; and his cherished brother, Warren A. May. He is also survived by his grandparents, Landon C. Turner, Jr. and Nancy Turner; devoted cousins, Vicheal Greene and Darryl Lee; and his best friend, Luther West. In addition, he leaves behind a host of devoted aunts, great-aunts, uncles, great-uncles, cousins, and friends.

Willie's education began overseas in Germany, where he attended Würzburg American High School and played football and basketball for the Central European League in 1998. He later attended Lloyd C. Bird High School in Chesterfield County in 1999 and graduated in 2002. An exceptional athlete, Willie participated in All-State, All-Star, and All-Metro football games as a standout player for Lloyd C. Bird High School. His remarkable achievements led to his induction into the Lloyd C. Bird Hall of Fame in 2019.

After graduating high school, Willie attended Lackawanna College in Scranton, PA, where he continued playing football. In 2004, he transferred to Virginia State University and pursued his football career there as well. Willie earned his Bachelor of Science degree in May 2007 and began a career in juvenile services, driven by a deep passion for working with at-risk youth. His career started at James River Detention Home, where he was a shift supervisor, providing 17 years of dedicated public service. Willie also worked part-time at Chesterfield Adolescent Resource Pathways during his career.

To know Willie was truly a blessing. Among his many passions, fatherhood stood above all. He was a devoted father to Cameron and took immense pride in his son's interests, hobbies, and academic and athletic achievements. Willie also loved football beyond the field, and his favorite team was the Washington Commanders. A lover of music and dancing, he was a talented professional DJ, known as "DJ Ill Will," who brought joy to family and friend celebrations around the metro-Richmond area.

In the past few days, family and friends have shared countless stories of Willie's infectious laugh and vibrant spirit. His laugh was contagious, lighting up every room it filled.

Willie knew how deeply his family loved him, and we will miss him more than words can express.

Remains rest at Scott's Funeral Home, 115 E. Brookland Park Blvd., where viewing will be held Sunday, January 19 from 11 a.m. until 5 p.m. Funeral services will be held 11 a.m. Monday, January 20 at Scott's Chapel, 116 E. Brookland Park Blvd. Rev. Wesley Dickerson, officiating.

Entombment will be at Dale Memorial Park Mausoleum.