Dorothy Mae Cross

04/10/1951 - 10/18/2023

Obituary For Dorothy Mae Cross

Youngstown-- Dorothy Mae Cross was born on April 10, 1951, in Youngstown, Ohio, to the union of the late Roy Donaldson, Sr. and Eva Mae Cox Donaldson. She fulfilled her destiny in this life and went home to be with the Lord on October 18, 2023 in the presence of her family in Hazelwood, MO.

Dorothy attended The Rayen School, where she cultivated her passion for education and embraced lifelong friendships. After graduating in 1970, she embarked on a journey filled with love, compassion, and dedication.

On August 10, 1974, Dorothy was united in marriage Neal E. Cross, Sr., and together they nurtured a beautiful family. Their union blessed them with two children, Daria and Neal Jr.(Candace) who were the center of their worlds. Dorothy was a devoted wife and mother, always providing unwavering support and selfless love to her family.

In 1980, Dorothy and Neal Sr. relocated to St. Louis, Missouri, where they established their home and built a strong community. As a woman of faith, Dorothy found solace and inspiration at the New Northside Missionary Baptist Church. In 1985, she joined the church's usher board ministry and dedicated her time and energy to serving others in her congregation.

Dorothy's professional journey was marked by commitment and excellence. From 1971 to 1980, she worked diligently at the former Higbee's Department Store, leaving a lasting impression on both colleagues and patrons. Over the next two decades, she took on various roles at Fashion Gal in St. Louis, showcasing her impeccable work ethic and friendly demeanor.

In 1997, she found her professional home at United Healthcare, where she served as the main receptionist. Her warmth and kindness earned her the endearing nickname "Mama Dot/Ms. Dot" among her UHC family and recently retired in July.

Her unconditional love and enduring memory will remain vibrant among her children and brother Willie (Carol) Donaldson and sister Gearldine (Bobby) Brown along with a score of nieces and nephews.

Dorothy's peaceful departure has left a void in the lives of those who knew and loved her. She was greeted at Heaven's gate by a cloud of witnesses which included her beloved parents; sisters Mary Donaldson and Verline Donaldson; her brother Roy Donaldson Jr., and her nephew Tony Steverson.

As we mourn the loss of Dorothy, whose name means "Gift of God", we also celebrate the reality that God now calls her His Beloved Daughter. We take comfort in knowing that her spirit will forever be with us and that her legacy will endure through the memories we shared.

As we bid farewell to our dear Dorothy, let us remember her infectious laughter, her nurturing spirit, and the joy she brought into our lives. In our hearts, her memory will forever shine, and the impact she made in our lives will never be forgotten.

The Cross family invite all those touched by her life to attend the calling hours & family visitation, which will be held on Sunday, October 29, 2023, from 4 pm to 7 pm at the New Northside Conference Center located at 5939 Goodfellow Blvd., St. Louis, MO 63147.

Dorothy's journey home will continue Friday November 3, 2023, in Youngstown, Ohio. The viewing and funeral services will take place at Union Baptist Church, located at 528 Lincoln Ave., Youngstown, OH 44502. The viewing will begin at 10 am, followed by the Celebration of Life service, officiated by her nephew Pastor Kenneth Donaldson, at 11:00Am.

In her final earthly resting place, Dorothy will find eternal peace at Tod Cemetery, where she will be laid to rest in the presence of her beloved family. May her soul find eternal peace in the arms of our Creator.

At Dorothy's request, the Cross Family entrusted J.E. Washington Funeral Services, 2234 Glenwood Ave. Youngstown, OH. for the comfort ministry & transitional care arrangements.



Guest Book

Sincerest condolences to the Donaldson and Cross families, in the homegoing of my dear Rayen classmate. Catalina Johnson Rodriguez

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On behalf of your FedEx family, please know you have our deepest and heart felt sympathy for the loss of your wife. May you and your family find comfort from your grief. Lone Star Family

- Daniel Gitonga

Our deepest condolences! Cousin Hazel Cox Camp & Family Albany, Georgia

- Hazel C. Camp

May God Bless and watch over your family for we know you are watching from above. God be with you. Roddy Dorsey & Family

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Condolences to the family of my beloved classmate. Paula Price Rawls Hawkinsville, Ga

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Beloved classmate

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God blessed me with the best Aunties and I will be forever grateful for our relationship. We will miss your love, laughs and dancing. Love you always. Carolyn (Kootie ❤️)

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From Verona St., Girard, Ohio we offer our deepest sympathies and condolences to the Cross family. "Dot" has joined those who have departed before her. So many memories of the Mr & Mrs. Jesse Cross family dinners ❤️ God Speed 🙏

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May the God of all comfort keep your family in His perfect peace. Pastor Lewis Macklin

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Our staff will continue to keep your family in our prayers. It is with grateful hearts, we thank you for allowing us to minister and serve your family.

- J.E. Washington Funeral Services, Inc. - Youngstown